BRIDESMAID VENT..AGAIN!!
I'm back with another case of Bridesmaid Drama!!!
My dilema is this..One of my bridesmaids happens to be my best friend of 18 years!! We are close as anything but now, and all the stuff she has been pulling I am reconsidering a friendship with her after the wedding. I think I am totally stressed out here.
My sister is trying to get everyone together to make plans for the shower. It is all set to go out by my FSIL house this coming Sunday. I know for a fact that my best friend is coming to my town this weekend due to a baby shower she has to go to on Saturday the 31st. My sister wrote her on the 20th, she read it and didn't write back..she wrote her again today she read it and didn't write back. My sister says things have to been done now, we are almost in June and running out of time due to her! My FSIL, my sister, my mom, and FMIL are all ready to run with the idea for my shower! I have a feeling she is gonna make up an excuse that she has to spend time with her mom. I understand that family is the most important thing, but she has spent the last few weeks with her. Not to mention I haven't seen her since Feb and she is supposed to be my best friend! My sister is so pissed and sick of her crap. I have had it up to here with her, I'm so tired of her! And of course I can't say anything, I am not supposed to know anything but I do..I want to so bad! I want to know why she is behaving like this..Sounds like she either wants to drop out of my wedding, or she is having second thoughts. Meanwhile my other friend who was originally in the wedding wants to help out any way she can! ( She was having some problems and needed to drop out--no hard feelings she was honest) After the wedding I want to say something to her!!!
My sister is ready to write her back and find out why she is ignoring her. My sister is so mad that she is ruing the whole wedding party! She is doing this Sunday with or without her! I am so livid right now, and to think this person is my best friend...correction was my best friend...
My dilema is this..One of my bridesmaids happens to be my best friend of 18 years!! We are close as anything but now, and all the stuff she has been pulling I am reconsidering a friendship with her after the wedding. I think I am totally stressed out here.
My sister is trying to get everyone together to make plans for the shower. It is all set to go out by my FSIL house this coming Sunday. I know for a fact that my best friend is coming to my town this weekend due to a baby shower she has to go to on Saturday the 31st. My sister wrote her on the 20th, she read it and didn't write back..she wrote her again today she read it and didn't write back. My sister says things have to been done now, we are almost in June and running out of time due to her! My FSIL, my sister, my mom, and FMIL are all ready to run with the idea for my shower! I have a feeling she is gonna make up an excuse that she has to spend time with her mom. I understand that family is the most important thing, but she has spent the last few weeks with her. Not to mention I haven't seen her since Feb and she is supposed to be my best friend! My sister is so pissed and sick of her crap. I have had it up to here with her, I'm so tired of her! And of course I can't say anything, I am not supposed to know anything but I do..I want to so bad! I want to know why she is behaving like this..Sounds like she either wants to drop out of my wedding, or she is having second thoughts. Meanwhile my other friend who was originally in the wedding wants to help out any way she can! ( She was having some problems and needed to drop out--no hard feelings she was honest) After the wedding I want to say something to her!!!
My sister is ready to write her back and find out why she is ignoring her. My sister is so mad that she is ruing the whole wedding party! She is doing this Sunday with or without her! I am so livid right now, and to think this person is my best friend...correction was my best friend...
