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bridesmaids at shower

Original post by JBC12510

Did all your bridesmaids attend your shower?

I just found out the date of mine and started to spread the word and one of mine has a wedding that day. I'm obviously not going to tell her not to go to a wedding but I'm still kind of upset.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsSemetis

Im confused as to how some pple can be special enough to be included in the bridal party and then not make it for the actual shower

Unless someone is really far OOT or has such an important job thats just ridiculous. Im sorry some people kinda s*ck--and for the girl who got a text the next day --her a$$ would not be standing next to me on my wedding day!!!



Ive had nothing but problems since day 1 .. Two girls are no longer in it and now this one does what she did .. Im so done with the bridal party aspect .. Its just ridiculous how people are when it comes to weddings. I hope all of you girls who have awesome friends in their bridal party really appreciate them because you find out who your true friends are during this process
MayBride2010 Posted:

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Nope...only 2 out of 5 did. My MOH is in CA (I was actually really disappointed she didnt try to come because she has missed out on everything else and hasnt really planned or done anything), another BM is in FL and another in the UK. So yeah, I have only had 2 BMs with me for everything (B-Party included) which I have been kinda bummed about...

rdubs Posted:

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i had two showers, 3 BMs made the one in Florida and 3 BMs made the one in NY!

Having a wedding is understandable so you can't be too upset with her...
JBC12510 Posted:

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Posted by rdubs

i had two showers, 3 BMs made the one in Florida and 3 BMs made the one in NY!

Having a wedding is understandable so you can't be too upset with her...


I totally agree, which is what I told her. I was just disappointed that I wont be having all my friends there.

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