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bring it back..rude things people say about your wedding planning

failurebydsign Posted:

bring it back..rude things people say about your wedding planning

I couldn't find my original post..But IM sure since its been a few months people have been talking

my FMIL ( who was Great at the start) says..'IM not paying for a bunch of people to eat the night before when IM paying for them to eat the next day too'..where IM from we don't do this..SO IM not helping out with a rehearsal'

what ansty things have people been saying to all of you
Mrs.D08 Posted:

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Rude things are like when people tell you to invite them? Are you crazy????? I really hate that.

Mizzdimple Posted:

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My Sis (MOH) says to me...'Are you going to have American Music at your wedding., its probably going to be all greek music., and Im going to be bored the whole time'.

UM OK! SHES CRAZY
Mrs.D08 Posted:

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When my cousin was getting married, she sent out the RSVP that said 2 people were invited. The person crossed out the number and put 7! What the F**K. I
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by Mrs.D08

When my cousin was getting married, she sent out the RSVP that said 2 people were invited. The person crossed out the number and put 7! What the F**K. I



wow, that is balls
nmagel Posted:

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My wedding is on a Sunday night. My MOH (my sister) told me. No one is going to drink and everyone is going to leave really early to go to work the next day. It ends at 11!!!!! 15min. from home!!!

TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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I used to get from alot of people how far advanced the wedding was, and why am i booking things now. like there was something wrong with me

and last nite, FMIL says on the phone that its going to be at the year mark soon!! and time is flying by!!
failurebydsign Posted:

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Posted by Mrs.D08

When my cousin was getting married, she sent out the RSVP that said 2 people were invited. The person crossed out the number and put 7! What the F**K. I



i think i would fight someone
Mizzdimple Posted:

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Posted by Mrs.D08

When my cousin was getting married, she sent out the RSVP that said 2 people were invited. The person crossed out the number and put 7! What the F**K. I



Im anticipating that happening to me., actually we have to leave our 's open
KickinDandelions Posted:

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my cousin actually said, 'you're not going to be cheap like and not let us bring guests to the wedding, right?'

i was so p*ssed. so i told her that if she was willing to pay all of the expenses for that person to come then she can invite whatever guest she wants. that shut her up real fast
kimnsteve Posted:

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i have one for everyday of the week!


everyone has a huge problem b/c we chose to have a DW


but the best had to be the other day


FMIL.....'I think i am going to have to stay home fromm your wedding because no one will be home to watch the dogs'

yes u read that right ladies

or the runner up

FSIL....'aruba is disgusting ....i cant believe you are making everyone go there ...i know someone who left their honeymoon early because it was so bad'


seriously i could keep goin


ok one more ....


FMIL....told one of the cousins at easter...when they said they cant wait for our wedding


'dont waste your money, mike and jen's wedding will be fun (his brother ...they are having it at leonards)'
AS Posted:

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Posted by Mizzdimple

My Sis (MOH) says to me...'Are you going to have American Music at your wedding., its probably going to be all greek music., and Im going to be bored the whole time'.

UM OK! SHES CRAZY



People say that to me too bec they know that I only listen to greek music and Im going to be playing greek music the whole time. hahhahahahah I feel bad, I 'll add a couple of club songs too
failurebydsign Posted:

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Posted by kimnsteve

i have one for everyday of the week!


everyone has a huge problem b/c we chose to have a DW


but the best had to be the other day


FMIL.....'I think i am going to have to stay home fromm your wedding because no one will be home to watch the dogs'

yes u read that right ladies

or the runner up

FSIL....'aruba is disgusting ....i cant believe you are making everyone go there ...i know someone who left their honeymoon early because it was so bad'


seriously i could keep goin


ok one more ....


FMIL....told one of the cousins at easter...when they said they cant wait for our wedding


'dont waste your money, mike and jen's wedding will be fun (his brother ...they are having it at leonards)'



im get a lot of the same things too..since FH family is all from Kansas..and thats where we live..its some what of a destination wedding..and people thing im being a B itch and having this big extravagant wedding and his family is like..noby is going to go to NY..they will be too scared and its too expensive
AS Posted:

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Yeah I hate it when people say 'you are spending so much on this and on that', I could care less, its my wedding, I do what I want. I hate it when they say its a waste, its a waste, dont do this and dont do that ITS NOT A WASTE

Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess


Posted by Mrs.D08

When my cousin was getting married, she sent out the RSVP that said 2 people were invited. The person crossed out the number and put 7! What the F**K. I



wow, that is balls



my thoughts exactly jess! haha
gemini515 Posted:

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one of my BM said to me 'the only problem I have with you having a sunday wedding is that I have to go to work. I looked at her and responded I am not telling you my wedding is next week you have enough time to take off the next day if you want.

Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by kimnsteve

i have one for everyday of the week!






FMIL....told one of the cousins at easter...when they said they cant wait for our wedding


'dont waste your money, mike and jen's wedding will be fun (his brother ...they are having it at leonards)'




WHAT?!?!? how effin rude.

that would have made me flip. not kiddin.
KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by failurebydsign


Posted by kimnsteve

everyone has a huge problem b/c we chose to have a DW



im get a lot of the same things too..since FH family is all from Kansas..and thats where we live..its some what of a destination wedding..and people thing im being a B itch and having this big extravagant wedding and his family is like..noby is going to go to NY..they will be too scared and its too expensive



that s*cks!!!

my other cousin (not one that i posted about above) asked me where it was going to be and when i told her LI she had this p*ssed off look and said 'you're not going to make us go all the way out there, are you?'...omfg...it's a 1.5hour drive from nj (meanwhile, she had gone to a wedding at Watermill a few weeks before and that's even farther from her house in nj than where i'm having it)!! are you KIDDING me??? i was so mad...so i said 'you don't have to come if it's that big a deal'...which..in retrospect i shouldn't have said but she's the only one complaining about having to go to LI, and when FH and i were just dating, she was always flirting with him sigh. i'm an angry little girl today..sorry
empressdani Posted:

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Posted by gemini515

one of my BM said to me 'the only problem I have with you having a sunday wedding is that I have to go to work. I looked at her and responded I am not telling you my wedding is next week you have enough time to take off the next day if you want.



I hear you, but the stuff i'm hearing is even worse b/c my date is next Memorial Day Monday! And I told them the same thing, 'If you can not accrue a days worth of vacation time in more than a year you may want to change your occupation.' I mean really! I'd do it for those broads!

This one is the kicker. My BM who i've known since I was 2 (and who is a bit pushy) has been trying to convince me to try a poofy dress which isn' t my style, I wanted something sleek. At dinner w/ my sis/MOH last weekend to discuss my e-party she's looking @ a bridal mag and says 'Oh look, this one is fitted and then flares at the bottom a good compromise between what we both want.'

What!! a COMPROMISE!? WE!? There is no we in the dress situation. No democracy its a bridocracy and I'll wear what I like thanks. Her only job is to tell me if the darn thing makes me look like a drag queen!

Sorry so long...i've been holding that one in for a sec!
femmes Posted:

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TO FMIL ' We are getting married October 12, 2008'

FMIL (with a sour puss face walk out the room) 'Isnt that too early?'

UM HELLO YEAR AND SEVEN MONTHS!!!

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