bring it back..rude things people say about your wedding planning
Original post by failurebydsign
I couldn't find my original post..But IM sure since its been a few months people have been talking
my FMIL ( who was Great at the start) says..'IM not paying for a bunch of people to eat the night before when IM paying for them to eat the next day too'..where IM from we don't do this..SO IM not helping out with a rehearsal'
what ansty things have people been saying to all of you
Collweenie21
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Oh and I've heard the shiznittle about mot spending too much on a wedding cause it ends up in divorce anyways
chrispar
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Posted by kimnsteve
i have one for everyday of the week!
everyone has a huge problem b/c we chose to have a DW
but the best had to be the other day
FMIL.....'I think i am going to have to stay home fromm your wedding because no one will be home to watch the dogs'
yes u read that right ladies
or the runner up
FSIL....'aruba is disgusting ....i cant believe you are making everyone go there ...i know someone who left their honeymoon early because it was so bad'
seriously i could keep goin
ok one more ....
FMIL....told one of the cousins at easter...when they said they cant wait for our wedding
'dont waste your money, mike and jen's wedding will be fun (his brother ...they are having it at leonards)'
OMG!!!
Mizzdimple
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Today I got a 'Can I see that downpayment for a house on your hand'.
Mrs. V 2008
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' I can't see spending blah blah blah on a wedding'..first off how does anyone know what its costing me and thats none of their business anyway
madseason
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Posted by Mizzdimple
Today I got a 'Can I see that downpayment for a house on your hand'.
Thats the one thing i forgot that FMIL shoves down my throat every time im in her presence. 'you could put this towards a house.'
No no...see...its because I want to live with you sooo bad that I am just going to throw my money away...
ZKAT22
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Posted by MPAS
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My Sis (MOH) says to me...'Are you going to have American Music at your wedding., its probably going to be all greek music., and Im going to be bored the whole time'.
UM OK! SHES CRAZY
People say that to me too bec they know that I only listen to greek music and Im going to be playing greek music the whole time. hahhahahahah I feel bad, I 'll add a couple of club songs too
i'm doing the same things. the only english songs i'm playing are for the bride/groom, mother/son & daughter/father dances. and that's only because i can't find any songs in greek. luckily i only have one person whho won't be greek, but he likes greek music...so i'm covered
ZKAT22
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my FMIL once told me...'you're gonna lose weight before the wedding right? because you want to be pretty on your big day'
madseason
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Posted by ZKAT22
my FMIL once told me...'you're gonna lose weight before the wedding right? because you want to be pretty on your big day'
WHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTT????????????
You win.
Mrs. V 2008
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Posted by ZKAT22
my FMIL once told me...'you're gonna lose weight before the wedding right? because you want to be pretty on your big day'
what ????? thats horrible..wow thats such a rude thing to say to someone
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Holy Crap...this is some sh*t on here...I can't believe what I'm reading. My new rule is I only talk about the wedding to you girls and my FH. I will talk to others only if THEY bring it up or ask me questions...I offer nothing anymore.
I'll add my personal favorite rude wedding comment...'don't waste your money...If I had a chance to do it all over again...I'd skip it'...this of course coming from women who had the big wedding and planned it for 2 years...yeah...I'm sure...they say that now because THEY DID IT ALREADY!!!!
As my FH says...the more people I talk to, the more I like my dogs!
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Posted by ZKAT22
my FMIL once told me...'you're gonna lose weight before the wedding right? because you want to be pretty on your big day'
nooooooooooooooooooooo!!
that is effin nerve!
failurebydsign
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Posted by misskitty08
Posted by ZKAT22
my FMIL once told me...'you're gonna lose weight before the wedding right? because you want to be pretty on your big day'
nooooooooooooooooooooo!!
that is effin nerve!
that might top the list..but i have one better..FROM FMIL
WOW..your not that big..but you dress size starts with the number 2..i just couldnt live with myself
im regularly a size 14 but i guess my dress just runs small..i dont care..it iwll be altered
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Posted by kimnsteve
i have one for everyday of the week!
everyone has a huge problem b/c we chose to have a DW
but the best had to be the other day
FMIL.....'I think i am going to have to stay home fromm your wedding because no one will be home to watch the dogs'
yes u read that right ladies
or the runner up
FSIL....'aruba is disgusting ....i cant believe you are making everyone go there ...i know someone who left their honeymoon early because it was so bad'
seriously i could keep goin
ok one more ....
FMIL....told one of the cousins at easter...when they said they cant wait for our wedding
'dont waste your money, mike and jen's wedding will be fun (his brother ...they are having it at leonards)'
Aruba is really nice! I went there for my honeymoon in March and holy cow I loved the weather!
Spelldizzy
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Thank you for starting this thread...I could write a BOOK!!!!
from a co-worker 'Registering for gifts is rude. Its for lazy people...you should buy that stuff yourself'
'Forget all this wedding stuff, go to the justice of the peace and use that money to buy a house!'
my mother- 'I hope you lose 50 pounds before the wedding and start clearing up your skin....' (Thanks Mom!)
'You dont need to look for a dress now, you have PLENTY of time!'
after telling a co-worker what I planned to do for my favors ANOTHER co-worker who was being nosey walks up and says 'You know what you SHOULD do is...blah blah blah...because thats what I did at MY wedding...' Okay lady did I ask you? Im glad that worked at YOUR wedding but this is mine!
my mother again...'....Spending all this money for one day....' Last I checked it was me and FH's money none of yours.
People who whine and cry about my wedding being on a Thursday...You have a year to make plans, and the people that love me will be there REGARDLESS of when it is WITHOUT all the crying about
SAMORY
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How can I have such a big wedding with so many children?
Know this is the funny part, I work and so do FH. Our children are 18 (he works so don't have to do much for him except feed him , ) 15,11, and 1.
I would understand if we wasn't working and our children was babies but that is not the case.
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one of my BM moms said to me ' oh why cant u get married this summer? now i have to wait longer for a grandchild' r u kiddin me?? my BM doesnt have a problem, shes glad because i bought her more time to have a baby!!! also my mom is very helpful w/advice and all but i hate when she brings up money like' oh do u really want to spend all that money on that?' i mean FH and i are paying for everything not my parents so i dont like when people bring up how much things are going to cost!!!!
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someone at work told another co-worker regarding me:
she shouldnt have her wedding in Sept of 08 because she is younger than me and I am not even engaged yet.
my friend who is also the co-worker who this other person said it to was like what the hell does that have to do with anything???
FSIL said and I overheard it 'oh my ring is prettier and bigger'
Someone else said to me 'nice ring but it is kinda small i guess thats what you get when you are young and engaged.'
um hello my ring is 1.5 carats I dont think that is small
haha....i love people saying rude things to me!!!
Mizzdimple
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Someone at work said
'That ring is totally FAKE'', how could her Fiance be able to afford that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mind you, me FH and I work together....
I was like wow I didnt know you were his accountant.
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I hate it when people ask about the cost of things. Were they raised by a pack of wolves? It's quite tacky to ask things like that.
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When my FH told his parents we booked our location (first day out) his father turned to my FBIL and says 'so joe, is that place nice'
I was so angry I had to leave. As if we don't have taste or class. Anyway It's our wedding and mostly my money funding it.