Calling off the wedding

calleditoff Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:27 PM

Calling off the wedding

I was an active poster on this site, and I have decided to call the wedding off with less than 6 months to go.

We are two different people with different needs and wants.

there were things that bothered me that I chose to accept... now that the days to the wedding are dwindeing down .. I decided I can't live with them, and he has no desire to change, although I'm clinging to hope that he will. That''s whay I'm not posting as my normal screen name.

Idk where to turn, he called out BM and cancelled our hall today, he was told him to take a day to really think it through...

msflesch Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:28 PM

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Posted by calleditoff

I was an active poster on this site, and I have decided to call the wedding off with less than 6 months to go.

We are two different people with different needs and wants.

there were things that bothered me that I chose to accept... now that the days to the wedding are dwindeing down .. I decided I can't live with them, and he has no desire to change, although I'm clinging to hope that he will. That''s whay I'm not posting as my normal screen name.

Idk where to turn, he called out BM and cancelled our hall today, he was told him to take a day to really think it through...

Snick n Nick Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:29 PM

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I want to wish you all the best in whatever you decide to do....I'm sure this will be a difficult time, and you have already had some soul-searching, but it's best to do what you really feel deep inside....good luck!

kristi313 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:29 PM

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i'm so sorry, i hope everything works out for you. stay strong i'm sure you'll have a great future. i give you alot of credit for being strong enough to call the wedding off if it's not what you really want.

good luck!

Junebride62108 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:30 PM

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if you need anyone to talk to, we are here.

jgl Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:30 PM

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i am so sorry.. but from what you are sayinig, it seems like you made a good choice. You have to do what is best for yourself.

GL!

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:30 PM

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I am so sorry

TiffJoey Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:30 PM

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i'm really sorry to hear this....we are all here if you need to talk it out....i hope everything works out for the best...keep your head high and remember that everything happens for a reason

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:30 PM

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omg thats so sad im so sorry!!! i really hope he gets his crap together and realize what hes losing!

Teamhurldon Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:31 PM

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its hard for me to console someone when i dont know who you are

but GL

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:31 PM

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OMG!!! Are you sure its not just cold feet?? EVERYONE goes through a phase, but if you guys really love each other then its worth the fight!!! Its not all crimson and roses all the time. I hope everything works out! I'm really sorry

kBr Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:32 PM

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i hope things work out for the best.. we're here to talk if you need us.

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:32 PM

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i am SOOO sorry
it is true, you have to do what's good for you and what will make you happy; although it may not seem like it now

mathteach Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:35 PM

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I'm so sorry for you. Keep in mind: we are ALL here for you!

DD628 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:36 PM

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sorry to hear!

gabbie83 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:39 PM

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sorry to hear that. we are all here for you

angl2001 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:41 PM

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i think i know who you are cause of something i saw on myspace............i hope things work out if you need to talk FM me....even if this isnt who i think you are feel free to talk to me if you need to vent!! I am so sorry