I was an active poster on this site, and I have decided to call the wedding off with less than 6 months to go.
We are two different people with different needs and wants.
there were things that bothered me that I chose to accept... now that the days to the wedding are dwindeing down .. I decided I can't live with them, and he has no desire to change, although I'm clinging to hope that he will. That''s whay I'm not posting as my normal screen name.
Idk where to turn, he called out BM and cancelled our hall today, he was told him to take a day to really think it through...
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
So sorry to hear about this!!!! I cant even begin to imagine what you must be going through! Hopefully, he'll come around.... This may be just another hurdle to overcome that i'm sure we've all been through at some point during the engagement! Good luck hun!
thanks, we already called the weddding off once, & broke up for 3 months. I'm almost positive this is it
ILOVEBRIAN2008
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Posted by Kimbalina
Omg! I am sorry that you are going through this. I hope that you know you can FM me if you need to talk. I wish you the best-
Please remember were are here if you need us,
thank you. I am so upset, I saidd I was unhappy with the way things are handled (esp. $$) he said, you don't like it that's fine, then he hung up on me. Then I get a call from the BM at the place asking what's going on? Since I had an appointment tommorow to taste cake
oh no thats terrible!!!! he just called to cancel without even having a talk about it or anything??? u deserve much better then that!
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I wish I knew the right words to make you feel better but I can only offer my support and prayers that you will get thru this and into a better place.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
So sorry to hear about this!!!! I cant even begin to imagine what you must be going through! Hopefully, he'll come around.... This may be just another hurdle to overcome that i'm sure we've all been through at some point during the engagement! Good luck hun!
thanks, we already called the weddding off once, & broke up for 3 months. I'm almost positive this is it
Omg! I'm sooo soooo sorry! I wish you the best and much happiness down the road - whichever direction it might take you in
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i dont know what to say to make you feel better either....i just hope that everything works out for you....im really sorry.....feel free to FM if you want to talk....
remember we all are here for you
TakingtheLongWay
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OMG so sorry to hear this...please FM if you need anything, we are here for you...
davenjess
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i'm truly sorry that this happened...but i have to say i'm upset that i do not know who you are in order to try to help you personally..
it makes me sad that you were a regular poster and feel you had to make a new profile to tell us this sad news....
we are all here for you regardless of your 'wedded state'...
mariaobride
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i am terribly sorry you know you have us girls to be here for you & support you try to be strong
040508Bride
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ouch...it kills me reading this.....but, if you really feel in your heart he's not the one, now is your chance to walk away. It's better then getting divorced.
finallygotthering
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It may not seem to be the right thing now but you will look later and say I am glad things went that way... I was in a similar situation two years ago but he cheated on me... Now I am marry the right person at the right time in my life... FM me if you need to talk..
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OMG
I Love my bear
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So sorry to hear this., in all honesty its hard to console someone I have no idea...but all the same stay strong!! You deserve better at a time like this.
SoontobeMrsMc
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I'm so sorry! I hope everything works out, one way or another, for the best!
SugaBeans
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oh no! im so sorry to hear that! we are all here for you if you want to talk.
queenbean
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wow, says you got engaged in 2013. That is awesome.
calleditoff
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Posted by 040508Bride
ouch...it kills me reading this.....but, if you really feel in your heart he's not the one, now is your chance to walk away. It's better then getting divorced.
That's what his mother said
spanishitalian
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im so sorry
Bella77
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so sorry to hear that.. stay strong, do what is in your heart.
calleditoff
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wow, says you got engaged in 2013. That is awesome.
I'm an avid poster I don' t want people to know who I am, I am hoping we are able to work this out, and I don't want to be embrassed..
BTW: Who are you I've been chatting for over 2 years & I havn't see you on that much, I'm sorry that's mean, I'm having a really big day, and the fact that you neglected the 1st post then chose to poke fun @ something so stupid, is really cruel.
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I'm so sorry. Everything does happen for a reason.
