Calling off the wedding

Original post by calleditoff

Jan 08, 2008 08:27 PM

I was an active poster on this site, and I have decided to call the wedding off with less than 6 months to go.

We are two different people with different needs and wants.

there were things that bothered me that I chose to accept... now that the days to the wedding are dwindeing down .. I decided I can't live with them, and he has no desire to change, although I'm clinging to hope that he will. That''s whay I'm not posting as my normal screen name.

Idk where to turn, he called out BM and cancelled our hall today, he was told him to take a day to really think it through...

dannisayz Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:44 PM

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I hope all works out in the end, with whatever path you choose. I'm sorry to hear that you want to call it off, but if you think that you're not going to be happy together, then you made the right choice.

Best of luck.

We're hear if you need us.

Randilotus Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:45 PM

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sorry hope everything works out

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:45 PM

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I am so sorry.

chrispar Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:47 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this. You have to do whats best for you

empressdani Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:51 PM

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I'm sorry for the pain this decision may be causing you. I applaud you for being strong enough to stop the speeding train that this wedding stuff can become and do what is right for you. Your strength is amazing, hold onto that

Espo22 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 08:53 PM

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OMG i am so deeply sorry i hope you two can find a way to work it out, i wish you the best of luck

calleditoff Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:01 PM

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Thank you all, all silly as it sounds your words are soothing, thank you.

calleditoff Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:03 PM

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Posted by angl2001

i think i know who you are cause of something i saw on myspace............i hope things work out if you need to talk FM me....even if this isnt who i think you are feel free to talk to me if you need to vent!! I am so sorry

what did I put on myspace? FM me please?

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:04 PM

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Posted by calleditoff

Posted by angl2001

i think i know who you are cause of something i saw on myspace............i hope things work out if you need to talk FM me....even if this isnt who i think you are feel free to talk to me if you need to vent!! I am so sorry

what did I put on myspace? FM me please?

as we all run over to myspace!

bella1028 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:05 PM

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i am so sorry...

xXxNovember08xXx Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:05 PM

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MrsHtobe Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:05 PM

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I'm sorry to hear

You need to do what is best for you! Take time to think it over. . . .

Wifeynella Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:07 PM

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im so sorry. you have to go with your gut feeling b/c its usually right. i wish you nothing but the best and if you need anything you have a zillion friendly faces here for you!!

Kimbalina Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:11 PM

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Omg! I am sorry that you are going through this. I hope that you know you can FM me if you need to talk.
I wish you the best-

Please remember were are here if you need us,

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:16 PM

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So sorry to hear about this!!!! I cant even begin to imagine what you must be going through! Hopefully, he'll come around.... This may be just another hurdle to overcome that i'm sure we've all been through at some point during the engagement! Good luck hun!

Snowflake08 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:16 PM

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we are all here if you need anything!!

Celest Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:18 PM

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I know this is a tough time & I am so sorry for any pain you are going through. We are sending you positive thoughts & best wishes. Once we clear away the bad we leave room for the good. I am wishing you that & more. Again so sorry

Butterfly123 Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:18 PM

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Im so sorry whoever you are. We hope you still continue to post

calleditoff Posted: Jan 08, 2008 09:20 PM

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Posted by Kimbalina

Omg! I am sorry that you are going through this. I hope that you know you can FM me if you need to talk.
I wish you the best-

Please remember were are here if you need us,

thank you. I am so upset, I saidd I was unhappy with the way things are handled (esp. $$) he said, you don't like it that's fine, then he hung up on me. Then I get a call from the BM at the place asking what's going on? Since I had an appointment tommorow to taste cake