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...Can I invite

Ivansgirl Posted:

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I am inviting my students to the church through word of mouth and I will give them directions to the church.

Noelsgirl Posted:

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Don't do that!! That isn't nice! If they can't come to the reception, then don't bother inviting them to the ceremony cause they are going to feel hurt. If it was me I would have felt hurt. It's like you are telling them your good enough to come my ceremony but not good enough for my reception!

jmgoncal Posted:

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Posted by Future Mrs H

A girl at my job did this last year. She gave out invites to coworkers only to the church. It caused alot of confusion . Some people thought that they were invited to the reception also.
Also- which I thought was horrible- people were saying she did it only because she wanted gifts. It caused alot of hurt feelings.

Mind you- this is just a story of what happened here at work. It doesnt mean the same thing will happen to you.

But I think I would do it just by word of mouth.

JMO



This is exactly what I would be concerned about. I would only tell people the church info if they asked, after they specifically knew that they didn't get an invite to the reception. Otherwise, it might cause lots of confusion.
Golden Posted:

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Posted by Noelsgirl

Don't do that!! That isn't nice! If they can't come to the reception, then don't bother inviting them to the ceremony cause they are going to feel hurt. If it was me I would have felt hurt. It's like you are telling them your good enough to come my ceremony but not good enough for my reception!



Yeah that's what FH said
Tessie728 Posted:

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just being totally honest if i got an invitation to a ceremony, and not the reception when i KNEW there was a reception id be pissed!! Id feel like im not worth being invited, but others are. I wouldnt do it.

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