Last night was FH's bachelor party. The guys went to AC. WE had discussed and both agreed no strippers. His gm were well aware of that desicon. WELL AWARE! He calls me this mornign and tells me they hired a stripper to come to the hotel room (totally skeezy) He said it was a whole big drama he will tell me about it when he gets home. Now these are supposed to be the guys he is closest too. They can't respect us or our decision. I am fumming right now. I am ready to call the tuxedo shop and cancel their tuxes because I do not want these guys being any part of my wedding!!!!!!! I am beyond pissed and hysterical.
Mooshyboo
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Posted by HelenZ
When it comes time for my FH to have his, I really hope it doesn't involve a stripper coming to a hotel room....I'd much prefer him just going to a strip club (in fact I expect him to, which makes it easier for me to take when it happens).
.....don't be upset with FH he only gets one bachelor party and just be happy its at least over. Unfortunately there's not much you can say or do to reverse the fact that they went against what the 2 of you wanted. Just make sure you see them before your wedding day....you don't want your first encounter with them after this to be on your big day- then you'll be really angry!!
As far as your GM's...they probably wanted the strippers for themselves lol
I agree....
kitty1224
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I do not like the whole striper idea either, but it is tradition and I find alot of guys do not want strippers because the fiance would be mad. My FH is definitely having stripers at his BP, I do not want them at a hotel room that is for sure. I do not mind so much the strip clubs. It is over now and I know you are upset about it but guys are idiots and they do stupid stuff like that. I think 95% of guys have strippers at there BP. Do not be mad at FH, his GM well what can you really do, you and FH are starting a life together. Calm down and try to relax.
TheFutureMrsM
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i feel the same way as you. If the men in the bridal party hired some dirty stripper to come to the room i cant imagine what would of went on. This is my opinion and i would kick them all out of the bridal party, cancel all the tuxes, and tell them all to take a hike, You and FH made a decision and they totally disregarded that decision. SOrry for my harshness but i am so against this 'tradition' that if FH did this to me, i would honestly cancel the entire wedding. but maybe im just crazy, but a deals a deal in my eyes.
