cancelling acct

Original post by jenniferd

Jan 24, 2009 02:35 PM

Hi girls, does anyone know how to cancel an acct on here?

meara Posted: Jan 24, 2009 03:43 PM

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Posted by jenniferd

Thanks girls. We spoke last night and he said he wants to work it out but he's not sure it will. The way I look at it, you can't make something work if you have negative thoughts going in. Knowing that he said this to me makes me feel like he doesn't want it to work.

I hope things work out for you (whichever way it happens) one thing to keep in mind - I think a lot of times when big fights happen when wedding planning - thoughts always go to the bigger place of 'is this going to work out' so his rx may just be that. .. I would let yourself and both of you just take your time and try to make decisions w/o thinking of the actual wedding if that makes sense. . .. trust your gut - what you feel

jenniferd Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:17 PM

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Thank you so much girls, I cannot say enough how encouraging it is to hear all of your responses. I hope you are all right!

PROBM Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:18 PM

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we are here for you !!! just remember to keep an open mind and know relationship take hard ,hard work and sometimes a break down is essential

jenniferd Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:23 PM

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Posted by PROBM

we are here for you !!! just remember to keep an open mind and know relationship take hard ,hard work and sometimes a break down is essential

Thank you. I know that they are hard work, I just hope he does too

Ann 52409 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:43 PM

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I really hope everything works out for you guys.... sorry to hear

pandafish519 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:47 PM

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i hope you work things out, either way it goes... take care!

Debrian2009 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:52 PM

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I really hope you guys work it out....relationships are always tough but if he is willing to work on things that is a good sign.

Hang in there.

NikkiR515 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 04:59 PM

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I really hope things work out for you guys!

Deeglasser Posted: Jan 24, 2009 05:37 PM

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i am sorry to hear this... my co-worker and friend just ended her engagement a week ago... i feel badly for her and she was miserable but i think she made the right choice.

i assure you that whatever you decide will be a good decision either way... i also agree with the post regarding the couples counselor- it might help you sort out some of your feelings... something to think about!
i wish you the best!

MirabellaNYC Posted: Jan 24, 2009 05:42 PM

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FutureMrsM Posted: Jan 24, 2009 05:48 PM

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So sorry to hear you are having problems, like the other girls said, give it some time and maybe you can work things out! We're all here if you need us

MrsZtoBe Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:25 PM

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Hang in there- I will keep you in my thoughts...

flairforfashion Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:29 PM

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WHAT???????????????? OMG, I am so sorry hun.

DinaAndRob Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:32 PM

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Don't give up.....if you love each other it will work itself out!!!

Tori9299 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:36 PM

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Sorry, give it time things may work out.

Dani777 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:45 PM

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I hope everything works out!!!

EmiNoa628 Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:48 PM

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flairforfashion Posted: Jan 24, 2009 08:53 PM

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DEF give it some time before saying this will or will not work. Sometimes when these things happen, at the moment we think the very very worst and it can end up being a totally different result. Hang in there!