Catholic Brides ...anyone??

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Posted by MegBert

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MegBert

Yes but i dont like that church so they will just become parishioners of the church I pick...I dont want to have it at that church because my nephew funeral was there...not so good memories

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only you and Fh has to become members.

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yes but if we dont want to our parents can

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well as long as the church is fine with that then thats great...I know one girl who had to start attending church every sunday if she wanted to become a member and it was them themselves who had to. I would look at churches you like and find out their policies...its one thing when parents are members for a while and then their kids get married, but for them to join and then turn around to say their kids are getting married not sure how it works...but again this varies from church to church, some are EXTREMELY strict others are more lenient.

also find out if they have foccus and pre-cana there or if you would have to attend it at a different church

St. Ignatius in Hicksville....I love this church and it has a really long isle!!!

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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

Probably St. lukes because FH wont give in .. he said I chose everthing else so he is picking the church and wants to get married at his church!

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Dina,
FH said the same thing to me...but guess whos church we are getting married in...mine

St Marys in East Islip....my parents and grandparents were married there

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Posted by SOTHISISLOVE53109

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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

Probably St. lukes because FH wont give in .. he said I chose everthing else so he is picking the church and wants to get married at his church!

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Dina,
FH said the same thing to me...but guess whos church we are getting married in...mine

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Hey thats not fair ... how did you pull that off ... I even tried tricking him into it.. but that didn't work... I even told him I only want that certain preist and he told me then tell him to come to st. lukess ughhhhh... he is so set in stone with that one decision!!

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by AntNick1101

Nah, not doing the church thing, though about it tho.

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I'm not either, but I didnt even give it a thought... I was always dead set against it. FH & I dont go to church... havent been in years and we are farrr from religious so it jus doesnt make any sense to us to have it in a church... Of course mom and her super religious side of the fam are upset about that... They first thing out of their mouth 'well you know a catholic priest wont marry outside the church..' my response 'who needs a priest?' LOL I'm pretty sure I said it in a much nicer way though

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I'm not getting married in a church either and FH and I go to church almost every sunday, i read the bible and it doesn't say that marriage has to be performed in a church so we are going to get married outside but, we want to make sure our pastor is there.

Sorry, I'm crashing -

We're getting married at St. Joseph's in Hewlett