so next wendsday i have to meet with the deacon of the church i want to get married in (lets all pray he lets me get married there ) now the question is FH and i live together ... do i tell him or should ijust say we dont??? ... i dont want him to say he cant marry us because of it ...
Jasonsgirl
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I went to see the preist the other night. They didnt ask if we lived together. We filled out paper that had our address on it. So they might know from that. Good Luck! It was that bad, I thought it was going to be worse.
snowcutie82
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when we met with the priest FH used his parents address because they belong to the parish and they know his family etc...and i used our address. He didn't ask us about living together...and didn't really go into any speeches just asked us about the day and stuff. He seemed more concerned about us doing a full mass vs. a ceremony more than anything. But I think this meeting was less formal...
I'm nervous for pre-cana though....i feel like that's when they will ask us all the questions we don't want to answer. the 'mentor' couple already called us! Supposedly we were signed up by the church for this spring's pre-cana...I think it's a little too early since I'm not getting married til Fall '08...there are 2 more sessions...this fall and next spring!
blu6385
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THANK YOU everyone for thier inputs ...
i am meeting with adeacon not priest ... and i dont use my living adress for anything yet i still use my parent ... (i refuse to put another address down until we get married and buy a house) ... so hopefully he wont ask and all we have to do is put our addresses down ... but if he does ... not sure what i'll do .. i have till next wed. to decide ... thanks again
