cheaters

jgl Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:31 PM

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I dont think I can answer this because id really need to know the WHOLE story both sides of it. I am TOTALLY against cheating. I think if you CHEAT and went through with it - i would be devistarted and prob couldnt be with a person who didnt believe in our relationship or love me enough and felt they had to cheat.

Attempting to cheat could me so many things... i'd need to know the whole story.

tlp123 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:34 PM

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Posted by Jumbles

Posted by bemyyoko

ummm...
probably not. but i think it would depend on the situation as well.
i mean, what does it mean when you attempt to cheat but don't go through with it?
and how did she find out? if he told her and was all up front and they realize they need to work some stuff out...
then maybe they can salvage the relationship.

if it was like it was in the Pina Colada song... no way in hell. Although...they were both attempting to cheat.

apparently he was on a online dating site and someone came across his pic

If he was on an online dating site, then it his cheating would have been very premeditated. And since someone 'came across' the pic, it sounds like there was no honesty on his part. I am not in the situation, but it definitely looks bad for him.

DiamondPipa Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:38 PM

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can't say for sure....you never know the situation. a dating website though??? that sounds like someone isn't sure of the relationship. sounds like someone i know! (not me, thank god).

meli722 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:40 PM

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

thats tough..but even the thought would bother me..how could he love me if he was even thinking about cheating..i wouldn't be able to trust him either..so i say no way

what she said

Butterfly123 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:46 PM

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NO WAY if I found out he was on a dating website would I forgive him. If no one saw his pic, he would have stil had it up there. I would kick his fricken a$$ out the house.

SugaBeans Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:56 PM

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i think i might forgive him but at that point he would be useless to me and any other woman bc he would be without a PENIS!!!!

alymikewedding08 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 09:58 PM

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NO!!!

I could never forget.. and I doubt I would ever get over it!

bella1028 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:13 PM

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No...I just could never get over it...I know myself and the trust factor would always be an issue then...bad situation...

Butterfly123 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:15 PM

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Posted by SugaBeans

i think i might forgive him but at that point he would be useless to me and any other woman bc he would be without a PENIS!!!!

Amen sistah!

drpepper318 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:27 PM

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Posted by Songstress1212

Posted by SugaBeans

i think i might forgive him but at that point he would be useless to me and any other woman bc he would be without a PENIS!!!!

Amen sistah!

drpepper318 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:28 PM

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

No way! If he is thinking of cheating then there is a problem. Even if he comes to his senses- he still thought about it.

I agree! Whether he went through with it or not, it's still a bad sign.

bemyyoko Posted: Sep 16, 2007 10:37 PM

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Posted by tlp123

Posted by Jumbles

Posted by bemyyoko

ummm...
probably not. but i think it would depend on the situation as well.
i mean, what does it mean when you attempt to cheat but don't go through with it?
and how did she find out? if he told her and was all up front and they realize they need to work some stuff out...
then maybe they can salvage the relationship.

if it was like it was in the Pina Colada song... no way in hell. Although...they were both attempting to cheat.

apparently he was on a online dating site and someone came across his pic

If he was on an online dating site, then it his cheating would have been very premeditated. And since someone 'came across' the pic, it sounds like there was no honesty on his part. I am not in the situation, but it definitely looks bad for him.

honestly, i have found MY pic up on dating websites when I did not put it there.
My ex decided to try and mess with me. It still happens.
I think it totally depends on their relationship.