Cheating

rojerono Posted: Sep 23, 2006 02:49 AM

Cheating

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever cheated on someone or with someone?

About 2 years ago my friend called off her entire wedding about 3 weeks before the date because she had found out that her then fiance had cheated on her once when they were first dating. Five years had passed, but she felt so strongly that it was wrong she LEFT HIM!

Fast forward to NOW... same friend has a boyfriend that she adores and wants to marry. He bought her a ring... but she can't call it an engagement ring becaust there is one hitch... he is ALREADY MARRIED! He told her that he loves his wife, but that he isn't IN LOVE with her and that he just needs some time to try to figure out what to tell her and how to tell her.

I am just baffled that someone who feels SO strongly that cheating is WRONG could actually CHEAT WITH someone!

I don't know why she thinks that having him is a prize! If he cheated WITH her, he can easily cheat ON her. I also told her that I kind of hope the wife finds them both and slaps the pair of them a few dozen times.

I have never cheated, but I have been cheated on and it was a total deal breaker.

Lools Posted: Sep 23, 2006 06:56 AM

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WOW I don't get it either...?

Gin-Char 104 Posted: Sep 23, 2006 07:12 AM

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ok wait....first what are WE all doing up on a SATURDAY at 7am and 2nd i am wondering if she fell out of love with this other guy and that was her excuse???? i don't get it either???? but you are right about the ceating/ WILL there ever be trust?

HelenZ Posted: Sep 23, 2006 11:17 AM

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that is horrible!!!! I hate to see anyone cheat with a married person!!

I've cheated....but that was when I was a teenager! My ex cheated on me but I'm glad I found out after we broke up. It just didn't hurt as much.

onelove1 Posted: Sep 23, 2006 11:59 AM

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I don't get it. . .the cheating thing is wrong and is so not fair especially if there are kids involved. I have heard stories about married men cheating and the botton line is that they never leave there wife. I have never cheated and never would. She's only hurting herself and seriously deserves better then that.

suzzi7404 Posted: Sep 23, 2006 02:44 PM

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She must not have really been in love with her first fiance and when she had a reason to run she took it.

jenn122397 Posted: Sep 23, 2006 03:08 PM

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talk about irony! I would think especially since she has been through being cheated on that she wouldn't want someone to go through that.

Soon2bMrsI Posted: Sep 23, 2006 04:04 PM

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she basically is not practicing what she was preaching before she met this guy btw who is a real slime bag for cheating on his wife. And what makes her so sure he won't do it to her??? I can't figure this out????

ksl268 Posted: Sep 23, 2006 04:09 PM

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Yikes! That is a disaster waiting to happen I would be very concerned that if your friend and the married guy wind up together he would do the same thing to her. I would steer my friend clear of the dirt bag!