Cheating Poll - Part II

dgtlsunshine Posted: Sep 08, 2005 07:19 PM

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In this day of AIDS no way in hell I would take him back.

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 08, 2005 11:34 PM

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Posted by dgtlsunshine

In this day of AIDS no way in hell I would take him back.

That is another reason I wouldn't be able to take him back

CKJ906 Posted: Sep 08, 2005 11:44 PM

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I could never trust him again, therefore I would leave.

jennymac Posted: Sep 09, 2005 10:34 PM

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my Fh and I decided that one would kill the other if we cheated. A nice stabbing does a broken heart good.

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Sep 12, 2005 01:36 PM

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i would end the relationship because even if he never cheated again i wouldnt trust him and we would never have the closeness and trust that we once did

edited to say that i know this from exprience because my ex boyfriend cheated on me and i did try and forgive but i never trusted him and it eventually became to hard for both of us and the relationship ended

Mrs_B Posted: Sep 13, 2005 06:46 AM

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I would NEVER forgive that.. and he knows it

nferrandi Posted: Sep 14, 2005 05:39 PM

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I really don't know what I would do. It would depend on a lot of different things. Was it an ongoing affair, a one time thing, etc... My initially gut reaction would be to end it, but I think that's easier said than done.
I can promise you though that if I did take him back, he would have a lot of proving himself and gaining back that broken trust.

Mrs.Z Posted: Sep 19, 2005 08:12 AM

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There is NO coming back from that... I would never speak to him agian

Imagin916 Posted: Sep 19, 2005 03:41 PM

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I would probably end it I dont think I could ever forgive him, but I guess you never REALLY know unless you are faced with the situation. I also think that its very different if he had a one time fling with someone who I know he would never see again than if he had an ongoing affair. The affair thing would kill me, that I dont think I could ever forgive.

FUTUREBRIDETOKEITH Posted: Sep 21, 2005 01:33 PM

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My FH kissed another girl when He went to Culture Club a few years ago. He was drunk out of his mind. It's no excuse but. He took two week to tell me.

I forgave him. but It's always in the back of my mind. If he did it once will he do it again.