OK, Have an odd situation here....My DH keeps accusing me of having a boyfriend on the side claiming he is getting odd vibes from me....It is getting old and annoying that he keeps saying these things to me. I am NOT cheating on him. I have no interest in any other man but him but don't get what the deal is....Some of my girlfriends think he is the one having the affair since he keeps accusing me of it.....Any thoughts on this?
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Yikes! Besides what your friends say, do you have ANY feeling that maybe he has someone on the side?
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they say that when the SO accuses the other of cheating, it's usually b/c THAT person is being unfaithful...they're insecurity and guilt gets the bedda of them, and they become the accuser
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Mrs Erod!!!!
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Mrs Erod!!!!
what?? that's what they say!! bedda not get mad at me just for being honest!! geez
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they're insecurity and guilt gets the bedda of them
BAHAHAHA!
I do have to agree though that is usually what they say. Do you come home late or anything that would make him think that?
mrswask
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I've created a monster!
MrsERod
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I've created a monster!
ok...no more hijacking!!
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I've created a monster!
ok...no more hijacking!!
Yah AW!
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OK, Have an odd situation here....My DH keeps accusing me of having a boyfriend on the side claiming he is getting odd vibes from me....It is getting old and annoying that he keeps saying these things to me. I am NOT cheating on him. I have no interest in any other man but him but don't get what the deal is....Some of my girlfriends think he is the one having the affair since he keeps accusing me of it.....Any thoughts on this?
nvrdull...seriously...you really should sit down with your DH and voice your concerns. Let him know that his accusations are only making you wonder about him, and whether or not its actually HIM thats being unfaithful. communication is soooo important in a marriage...you must put everything out on the table. good luck, let us know how it goes!!
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That is what I am afraid of... I in no way will get mad or upset with any of you guys.... I just want to know the truth. Because it is driving me INSANE!!!
Aggghhhhh
mrswask
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When and why do you think this started? Have you done anything that (although innocent) he may think is shady? NOT blaming you!! I'm just trying to understand...
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I have asked him over and over and he has looked me straight in the eye and said he is not having an affair....But when he keeps accusing me...It just gets under my skin.....Honestly I don't have enough time in the day for myself where on earth would I find time for another man?!?!?!??!
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That is what I am afraid of... I in no way will get mad or upset with any of you guys.... I just want to know the truth. Because it is driving me INSANE!!!
Aggghhhhh
i know its scary to even imagine that he would be unfaithful, but you owe it to yourself to know the truth....who knows, it could just be that he's insecure, scared, confused..and not at all cheating on you...but you won't know unless you talk to him and clear the air.
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DId you ever have this issue come up when you were dating? Are any of his friends going through this? Are you or he a flirt?
MrsERod
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do you go out with friends alot?
nvrdull
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When and why do you think this started? Have you done anything that (although innocent) he may think is shady? NOT blaming you!! I'm just trying to understand...
Not that I know of. I hardly ever go out with my girlfriends. I do have meetings that I travel too But trust me there are no guys in my business life....
Not sure when it started...But it has been going on alot more lately.... I hurt my knee and have to go to physical therapy twice a week, he's now convinced that I have a thing for my therapist! I just don't get it! So each time he says something to me I get annoyed because it is getting old and annoying.....So that makes hime think I am lying.... I have laughed it off and that makes him think I am lying! I wish there was a way I can take a lie detector test just to shut him up!
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do you go out with friends alot?
Nope hardly ever!!! If anyone remembers I vented about me finally getting to go out and he gives me Sh!t about it.....
MrsERod
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are you guys married??? i ask b/c your wedding date is in 2010??
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When and why do you think this started? Have you done anything that (although innocent) he may think is shady? NOT blaming you!! I'm just trying to understand...
Not that I know of. I hardly ever go out with my girlfriends. I do have meetings that I travel too But trust me there are no guys in my business life....
Not sure when it started...But it has been going on alot more lately.... I hurt my knee and have to go to physical therapy twice a week, he's now convinced that I have a thing for my therapist! I just don't get it! So each time he says something to me I get annoyed because it is getting old and annoying.....So that makes hime think I am lying.... I have laughed it off and that makes him think I am lying! I wish there was a way I can take a lie detector test just to shut him up!
WHyn ot ask him to come help you and give you moral support during PT...then you really do get moral support and he see's that you don't have a thing for your PT.
