are you guys married??? i ask b/c your wedding date is in 2010??
Yup been married for almost 9 years have known him for 14 years....
I just don't like giving too much personal info...
MrsERod
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Posted by MrsERod
are you guys married??? i ask b/c your wedding date is in 2010??
Yup been married for almost 9 years have known him for 14 years....
I just don't like giving too much personal info...
i hear ya w/ the pers. info
maybe he should go with you to P/T...so he can rest a little easier and see that you're NOT doing anything!!
nvrdull
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Off to bed, need to get up early tomorrow...
Thanks everyone...
Will keep you posted.
February05
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Off to bed, need to get up early tomorrow...
Thanks everyone...
Will keep you posted.
MrsERod
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Off to bed, need to get up early tomorrow...
Thanks everyone...
Will keep you posted.
lolita4life
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my DH says weird stuff like that too like 'you dont love me, youre gonna leave me for someeone' or or things like 'so and so is your boyfriend/girlfriedn' 'oh do you like him/her?!'
GOD! i know DH isnt ahving an affair... hes just insecure. maybe your DH is the same way?
oh and Nvrdull youll appreciate this one, he tells me im a lesbian cuz i watch the L word!
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Your Dh's behavior is really really odd. I'm not psychologist, but I think it's DEFINITELY coming from a place of insecurity inside of him. There could be a number of reasons he's feeling insecure. Maybe he is havving an affair (god forbid), and he feels like if you have one then he won't look so bad, or maybe he's just trying to place the blame on you. Or maybe he's feeling really run down at his job, maybe he feels like he's not making enough money or maybe he missed out on a promotion (just for example) and so he's feeling really insecure with his position in life.
Anyway, what's he's doing is obviously harming your relationship, and it's shaking the foundation of a marriage, which you know more than I, is trust. I think you should really sit down with him tell him it's bothering you and you want to know why he's so insecure all of a sudden. You stayed with him all these years, and you were with him when you were nine years younger, and he wasn't jeaous then, why now? I really would suggest marriage counseling. You shouldn't let this go on and tear apart your marriage. you need to get to the bottom of what's bugging your DH. I don't know how old you are, but it's VERY common for men to exhibit really odd behavior when they're going through a midlife crisis. It really may have nothing to do with you, he could just feel insecure about getting older, whether he's turning 30, 40 or 50.
