I know I asked this question when many of us were newly engaged... but now that you and FH are in the midst of planning, ideas and more discussion of the future is here ...
Do you plan to have kids after the wedding?
Me: FH is sooo ready for children however I think we need to wait at least 1 yr since its our 1st time living with one another .... so for now we will wait but if it happens, im just as excited...
Jsquared
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FH wants them right now too. LOL I want to wait at LEAST a year.. We have to enjoy our marriage a little.. maybe travle, save some money, enjoy each other!! Once you have a baby, thats it, baby is your life. I want to build a life and a concrete foundation with FH first..
evita2781
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we decided that we're going to wait at least a year or so after we get married to enjoy it just being us before the madness begins!
Ang9483
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I had kids before the wedding and I most deff want them after too
aquag12283
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We may wait a year but not too long. FH will be turning 31 a few months after were married and he wants to have kids by the time he is 35
angelscri
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FH and I definetely want a honeymoon baby.
SoontobeGallagher
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FH and I are waiting like 5 years.
We want to do LOTS of traveling.
Thats-What-She-Said
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2 years for us. Although if it happens it happens.
Isn't it strange that we spent so much time trying not to get preggo and now we are all talking about doing it. It's still a hard concept for me to grasp.
JennylovesStephen
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Fh wnated Kids yesterday He said he wants to have them right away which is fine for me I would love to wait a year but IDK
DCgirl82
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We decided to wait until we have a nice place with plenty of room for kids We want to be stable and prepared however if it happens after the wedding sooner than planned we would both be very excited
MrsDtoB
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Posted by Ang9483
I had kids before the wedding and I most deff want them after too
Same here. At least one more, right after the wedding!
BlushandBashful
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Posted by SoontobeGallagher
FH and I are waiting like 5 years.
We want to do LOTS of traveling.
Us too!!!!! We know we want babies EVENTUALLY, but we totally don't want them yet. We plan on doing a ton of traveling.
tac30
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FH wants them now.....LOL!! But i do want to have them after wedding bc im going to be 32 when we get married and I dont want to be too old when we start having kids.
Jsquared
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Isnt it so funny that all the FH want them before we do?
And how true is it that we put so much time and energy into trying NOT to get preg, and now were saying if it happens, it happens!!
njoseph8
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FH and I had 2 girls before we even got engaged... and we definitely want at least one more :)
LaBellaVita622
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funny Fh just said to me 'the wedding would be over now (if we deicded to do it this year) and you'd have nothing to look forward to..oh but you'd have a baby in your belly' haha so I know he wants a baby asap..but I'm not getting pregant til he quits smoking..
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Hoping for a honeymoon baby here...or one soon after! We've been living together for 2 years; will be 3 years when we get married so the whole adjustment to living together doesn't apply to us. Just looking forward to getting married and then starting a family
MrsTarricone2B
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If it were up to me we would have a honeymoon baby but FH wants to enjoy just being married for a little while. I told him I'm going to stop taking my pill on our one year anniversary and he agreed. I always wanted to be a young mommy!!!
Danielle41209
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We're probably going to wait a year or two after. I want to make sure we're financially ready (emotionally, we're already there!)
FinallyMrsS2010
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neither of us want kids. so def no baby making for us.
