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Choosing a church?

Autumnbride03 Posted:

Choosing a church?

I feel like I'm going to hell for 'shopping' for a church lol, but since FH (catholic) is from OOT and I am not catholic, we do not belong to a catholic church on LI so we have to pick one.

Based on the look alone (not considering priest, rules, etc) which would be more important to you- the inside of the church or outside/location?

Church A: (St. Isidore's in Riverhead)

- 5 minutes away from hotels and RH
- GORGEOUS inside, I like the inside more than Ostrabrama- marble alter, etc.
- sort of a sketchy street/area

Church B: (Our Lady of Ostrabrama in Cutchogue)

- a little further away from RH (15-20 min)
- Beautiful location, vineyards across street, nice street, gazebo, pretty grounds
- Inside is nice, pretty stained glass windows, but not as in love with the inside as much as St. Isidore's... it has red carpeting which is turning me off a bit.

Since we do not belong to a church on LI we are picking it pretty much on appearance as bad as that is.... but on the other hand we don't want to meet with both priests and be like, 'um, we liked this church better... but thanks for your time!' LOL

FH likes Ostrabrama more because he likes the location much better. I am leaning toward St. Isidore's because the inside is breathtaking. We can't decide, but need to very soon (St. Isidore's was getting a new priest so we have been put on 'hold' for the paperwork, and in the meantime discovered Ostrabrama) but the new priest is probably calling us in a few days!
CNC4eva3402 Posted:

Re: Choosing a church?

Aww..don't feel so bad I am 'church shopping' myself. I refuse to go to the church I made all my sacraments in because they didn't want to come give my Grandfather his last rights, because 'they had no-one with a car and didn't want to put a priest in a cab'

Anyway, long story short..I'm also church hunting, I want to find a beautiful church with nice priests that is close by so we can raise our kids there and they can make their sacraments there too..

I was kind of hoping to get a 'feeling' when I walked into one of them... did either of you feel like 'This is it?!?' I got a little teary eye in one of them when I was looking at the alter..

From your post I'd say go with #1, the inside is where you'll exchange your vows and where you'll walk down the isle..
Autumnbride03 Posted:

Re: Choosing a church?

yes we did.... unfortunately i got the 'feeling' in st. isidores and he got 'the feeling' at ostrabrama.... LOL

lanamanitta Posted:

Re: Choosing a church?

Go with the one you like inside, awesome pics, and so close to everything. The neighborhood won't effect your time there.

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