Alright me and the FH are off to our church interview. Wish us luck....AHHH I am so nervous.
Ok we are back in 20 minutes. Not bad. He just asked if we really wanted to get married. If we have ever seeked professional counseling. If we will have complications for when we have sex. Like are we able to perform if not we need to discuss. lol He didn't ask if we live together, but he knows because we have the same address and he didn't care at all. He didn't ask if we have sex. It wasn't bad at all. We just have to this FOCCUS thing where we have to fill out questions (like they did on engaged and underaged i guess.) and then discuss if we answered differently on anything. And we have to go for the pre-cana classes, which doesn't sound as bad as I thought. We go to someones house with two other couples to discuss our christian faith. At least we aren't the only two. But it wasn't bad at all. We went over the date and time and he gave us a lot of info we have to fill out like for the readings and music and everything. Don't worry for whoever has to still go. Its quick and painless.
MissMath
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they are doing like a million in renovations. That whole glass wall behind the altar I believe is going to be different!
Collweenie21
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Thanks for the update!! I think my church does Focusy thingy too, and not for nothing, its going to be weird talking sex with a priest!
dream426
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Posted by Collweenie21
Thanks for the update!! I think my church does Focusy thingy too, and not for nothing, its going to be weird talking sex with a priest!
I know. Its going to be weird.
MissMath
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i felt like a little kid when he was talking about it. I almost started giggling. Fh felt weird. But it opens your eyes to how much communication it really takes to have a successful marriage. I think the focus is going to be very interesting and eye-opener for everyone involved!
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they are doing like a million in renovations. That whole glass wall behind the altar I believe is going to be different!
I didn't know that. They just fixed up. I can't believe they are doing it again.
Collweenie21
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I agree. But I also think they are being a bit too nosey!
dream426
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I agree. But I also think they are being a bit too nosey!
I do also. I mean I was expecting him to ask if we have had sex, which he didn't. But he asked if there would be any complications in our performance. I mean of course not but i felt it was none of the churchs business.
Collweenie21
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Pre Cana is enough, but this Focus and the sex bit... come on....
ZeppsGirl
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good to hear that it went well. I told you just the sex thing...if it works and all!
Collweenie21
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Heres a question.. I though premartial sex is forbidden, so how do we know if it 'works'? By playing with ourselves?
dream426
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Heres a question.. I though premartial sex is forbidden, so how do we know if it 'works'? By playing with ourselves?
I thought the same thing but I wasn't going to ask. HAHAHA Maybe its their secret way of finding out if we have sex...lol
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I'm going to say I don't know if it works, I'll check tonight when I get home, and see what he says...
