Well i just recently decided not to get married in my church since there is no Air conditioning and im getting married in the end of july....im worried that other parishes will give us a problem bc we dont belong....has anyone encountered this type of situation?
Meaghan729
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crap! I have no idea if my church has air conditioning!!!
(It was recently completely renovated, so I think it does)
I'll have to find out.
Maybe you can find another church that has ac??
bride2b24
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well thats my plan....my fsil got married in a church with no AC and it was the most painful forty minutes of my life!! lol i dont want people to be dying to leave!
JazzyT
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I'm using another church other than my parish church I just had to get a letter frommy parish priest simply giving persmission for my cermony be be done at another parish...however the church that i used is in the Canarsie cluster of churches so I really did not go out my neighborhood.
andreamedic
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As far as I know, all you need is a letter from your church granting you permission.... easier said then done right????? Good Luck
Nina
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We will be doing that same obstacle soon,..good luck to ya
siobhanB
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Posted by andreamedic
As far as I know, all you need is a letter from your church granting you permission.... easier said then done right????? Good Luck
I wasn't aware that you had to get a letter... you should tell them you have lots of elderly pepole coming and they wouldn't be able to sit through the heat. They should understand
FDWedding07
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The church I wanted to get married in would not marry us because we did not belong to there church.
thumper9878
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I am not getting married in my parish, we have decided to get married at my FH parish. You shouldn't have a problem
bride2b24
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ok! thats what i was hoping.....thanks ladies
werock0709
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Posted by bride2b24
well thats my plan....my fsil got married in a church with no AC and it was the most painful forty minutes of my life!! lol i dont want people to be dying to leave!
This happened to me as well. I could NOT wait to leave. People were constantly wiping their sweat off and fanning themselves the whole. You really couldn't enjoy the ceremony, it was really bad!
ETAB
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I just had to deal with that... my church was booked for my date and time... so I got a letter from the priest and brought it to the new church... so far so good...
Love4Eva
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i dont think you will have a problem going to another church - they just might charge you a little more money since you dont 'belong' to that parish
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Yes actually I had a friend with a similar situation and it basically depends of the church itself. But just a word of advise, when you go there, dont tell them the real reason for not wanting to get married at your parish. Try and come up with a lttle whit lie. I know this may sound bad me telling you to lie to a priest, but it worked my friend. She had told the priest from outside her parish that she had a close love one pass away there and did not wish to relive those memories.
bride2b24
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Posted by pooks1020
Yes actually I had a friend with a similar situation and it basically depends of the church itself. But just a word of advise, when you go there, dont tell them the real reason for not wanting to get married at your parish. Try and come up with a lttle whit lie. I know this may sound bad me telling you to lie to a priest, but it worked my friend. She had told the priest from outside her parish that she had a close love one pass away there and did not wish to relive those memories.
o dont worry i have no problem doing that.....ive already lied and said we didnt live together.....wait should i really being getting married in the church?
