Cold Feet

It seems like it's just nerves, the closer it gets to the wedding the more stuff starts to sink in. I hope everyone works out for the best!!!!

I think you need to find out whether it's just 'nerves'. maybe he's nervous about being the focal point for the whole day, getting up in front of everyone, etc. . . .

but i think you must sit down with him and have an honest cvoenrsation, perhaps even with the help of a professional counselor or member of the clergy. Is he nervous about the WEDDING or the MARRIAGE? they are two very different things... if he's nervous about the marriage, unfortunately, I think that spells trouble and you either need to postpone it and work things out or maybe it's not meant to be.

GOOD LUCK!!!

Hang in there. Give him some space and let him think. I would be somewhat angry as well as crushed if I were in your shoes, so I can't blame you. Just try to be as supportive as you can.

I'm so sorry. Marriage is an overwhelming thing- especially when it involves a huge production that takes lots of planning! Your FH will be okay...it's just a bit overwhelming for him but he'll get past it!

Maybe you need a BREAK from wedding planning. I know it is in a week or so, but working on your relationship is more important...Take a night and go out to dinner and ice cream or bowling...do something to reconnect and remind each other why you made the commitment to get married in the first place. The most important thing in a relationship is the relationship. Good luck...

AWWW, I'm soooooo sorry. I'm sure that everything will work out. Best of luck to you.