For the brides who are married and the ones about too..did you or are you having cold feet..just alittle?
Soon2BMrsB2013
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Everytime he does something stupid, I think, UUUGGG do I really have to deal with this for the rest of my life. haha but then he makes me laugh and the answer is yes! haha
rosatemp
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i didnt we've been together 6 yrs so it was like we were married already lol
KDNY133
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I have cold feet about the wedding itself not FH. Thats a whole lotta attention and it makes me crazy nervous. Im getting married at 6:00 so that leaves all day to get ready and what not. I vowed not to drink before the wedding because with my nerves i would probably get bombed
AwaitingAugust
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yes, i was really nervous about getting married .... i guess i was afraid of commitment without ever knowing it
but a lot of it was also the fact that we were under a lot of pressure with the wedding planning and whatnot so we were arguing A LOT. Now that the wedding's over, we've gotten back to normal and things are good and we are happy.
happybride11
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Yes, its def the stress of the wedding and too much family drama! I just want us to be back to normal :(
S00n2beWifey
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Definitely a little nervous about the wedding itself (with all the people hehe) but not about marrying FH. Since the first day I met him I just knew there was something different about him. He is an amazing fiance, and will be an amazing husband and father too someday!
Yeah, he has done and will most likely do STUPIDDD things in our relationship, but it really only makes us soo much stronger as a couple. We have been through thick and thin and I wouldnt have it any other way!
HTH
halfbaked
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I don't think anyone in their right mind is ever 100% sure of marriage. It's a leap of faith and if you're doing it right (as in, planning to STAY married) then it's SCARY. IMO, having cold feet just goes to show that you are taking it as seriously as it should be taken. But now that I am married, I am glad to say I made the right choice and I couldn't be happier!
ETA: I also agree that the wedding planning adds a lot of stress to a relationship and it is hard. We fought a lot during wedding planning but now that the pressure is off, we rarely fight anymore- it's once or twice a year if at all.
chilly313
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I have to say - with my wedding one day away!!!! - I am really calm right now. FH and the guys just left to play golf. I am going to get a massage, mani/pedi and then check into the hotel. I am really glad everything is done and in place, but I am not feeling nervous (We'll see if that's still true tomorrow )
Bride in 2012
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Posted by chilly313
I have to say - with my wedding one day away!!!! - I am really calm right now. FH and the guys just left to play golf. I am going to get a massage, mani/pedi and then check into the hotel. I am really glad everything is done and in place, but I am not feeling nervous (We'll see if that's still true tomorrow )
Congrats on your wedding tomorrow
Bride in 2012
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I haven't had any doubts about marrying FH but there are definitely times where I just regret wedding planning in general. I really wanted a destination wedding. He wanted a huge party. I let him have the huge party & now I'm the one stuck planning. He comes to appointments & helps as much as he can but he doesn't know the first thing when it comes to any of this so he really relies on me to tell him where to go/what to do. The part I hate THE MOST is just having to go meet with several vendors in order to get a reasonable price. It's beyond frustrating. After our third florist appointment the other night, I had a breakdown b/c I feel like everything is so expensive.
