I have been feeling SO NERVOUS lately...kind of like there is too much pressure and I almost feel like I won't be able to handle the big day
I just wanted to vent because I have been feeling really nervous lately and want to know that I am not alone on this. I had a serious cry session yesterday with FH and today with my mom and my sister. Part of me just wants to skip the big day altogether and go RIGHT to the honeymoon!!!
I know I should not be so worried and I should FEEL happy..but sometimes, I really don't and I feel like I have to force myself to enjoy this. I kind of wish, at this piont, that I just eloped!
UGH..is anyone else feeling this way? What do you do to help calm your nerves?
SOTHISISLOVE53109
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First off I have to tell you that you are absolutely gorgeous!!!!! and everyone is going to be so happy to see you in that dress!!!.
Relax take a deep breathe, you are going to look back on this and can't believe you were so overwhelmed a month before.....just try and enjoy the last 'single' time you have and don't sweat the small stuff. you are going to have a stunning wedding....and then enjoy your honeymoon.
Feel better real soon!!!
Aristotelina
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Awww thank you som uch!!!
You're right--I should focus on my last month of being single!!!! I can't believe it!
gina409
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im sure well get this way every once in a while..as beautiful as a wedding is it is stressful on the wllet and the mind..seeing that u said u want to go to the hm makes me see u don have cold feet,just some nerves bout the big day..i will prob throw up on myself dont worry
Aristotelina
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Posted by gina409
im sure well get this way every once in a while..as beautiful as a wedding is it is stressful on the wllet and the mind..seeing that u said u want to go to the hm makes me see u don have cold feet,just some nerves bout the big day..i will prob throw up on myself dont worry
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Aww, I'm sorry you're feeling this way! I feel like that too, and I'm NO where near as close to the day as you are...so if you're just starting to feel like it now, consider yourself lucky! There's an incredible amount of pressure in this part of the country to have the perfect wedding, and not to be sexist, but maybe back in the day when women didn't work as much, it was ok, but to hold down a full time job and plan a wedding and still maintain a healthy relationship with your FH, family, and friends...it's an enormous amount of pressure!
We're here to keep you sane...just vent away, and just keep picturing beaches and honeymoons!
Aristotelina
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Awww thank you so much!!!! Thanks for listening girls--you truly are the best!
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I think that all this planning is just so stressful. I still have a lot to do and not enough time. I can't wait for it to be over.
Just take everything one day @ a time. You will feel better when it's over and you will be happy on your wedding day.
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Youre definitely not alone in this and there are plenty of days I want to call the big thing off and just do something small,but we've come this far and I know in the end it's going to be great. Don't worry, just take a deep breath, relax, take a break from planning and try to focus on yourself and FH
PoppedInASnap
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ME! Im a nervous wreck and doubting a million things... and I still have 6 months!
KittyGags
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The making myself insane thing makes me realize why wedding planners exist. Its enough to make anyone NUTS.
You'll be fineeeeee!
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oo hun your just stressed, I know I will be right in your boat and I am sure sooo maney brides are. Everything is going to be great watch! Have faith, its your day enjoy every minute do not stress the small stuff
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It's totally normal! As I just said in another thread a few days ago, it is impossible to be super excited and hyper about something ALL the time. So it's totally normal to have a down period before you start to get excited again. I went through that a few months ago. I got scared that it meant that I didn't want to marry FH anymore, then I realized that I had been on this 9 month high from getting engaged and planning and I just really needed a mental break. It's totally normal, DON'T WORRY!
Aristotelina
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Thanks so much ladies! You're right!!! It's just that the days are going by SO quickly and I feel like I am NOT ready!!! LOL
