Come in to vent on anything you want!!!!!

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Posted by jesseskylar

Pre- Cana is sooooooo whacked out!

-No! old pre- cana instructor couple, I don't want to talk about contraception methods with you!
-Priests are supposed to be nice, not total a-holes! I am having nightmares about him ruining my ceremony!

I am not a religious person, neither is my fiance, we are doing this to make our parents happy- how dumb is that!!!!! I work full time and go to school full time (an hour away fro my house).

I cant take it anymore!!!

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This might be one reason why my mother wanted me to marry a nice Jewish boy!!

I have 4 cleanings a year and have dumped a lot of money at my dentist and never get a discount even though my parents now go there too and insurance only covers 2 cleanings a year. I make each cleaning appt at my last one so the appt is 3 months in advance.

2 weeks ago they called to ask if they could move tomorrow's cleaning up to 5pm. I get out of work at 4:45pm and can't rush so I always make them at 5:15pm. I called last week and said I couldn't get out of work early, they said fine..5:15pm it is. They just left a message on my machine to confirm a 5PM APPT!! It's bad enough they sent me a late payment bill last week when the check cleared over a month ago.

Very disappointing how disorganized this office is.

I could probably post on this thread every damn day!!!

To my brother: grow a backbone. I know you might even be reading this after I showed you the site. I know I screwed up, and I know you should not be held responsible for my actions. I am truly sorry for what is happening to you now as a result of my stupidity, but what is happening is BS!! You have a right to get what you're entitled to!! Get some balls or borrow them from your wife, because I know she has more than you. Get off your butt and take care of this instead of constantly getting screwed, because that is exactly what is happening! I love you, and that is why I hate seeing you getting taken advantage of!

To my florist: Please if I schedule an appointment please remember to freaking keep it! I am now in the process of looking for other florists 3 months before my wedding because this makes me uneasy!!!

To drivers all over the place: In horrible weather like today and every other day for that matter, USE YOUR SIGNALS!! And stop tailgating me!! This is how freaking accidents happen!! And when you change lanes make sure you have enough room!! I should not have to slam on my brakes to avoid hitting you!!

To the USPS: Why the hell are you forcing me to get customizable stamps? Why couldn't these new stamps be issued when the price increase went into effect?

Okay I'm done venting for now.

My MOH is MIA
thanks
no offense but you role doesn't only include picking out your dress

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Posted by JXNOscar

My MOH is MIA
thanks
no offense but you role doesn't only include picking out your dress

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Yours too? I thought mine was the only one!!!

This is an old thread that I am bumping bc i need to vent

This goes out to a bunch of people that I have encountered since I got engaged - that will never ever read it! Kind of a continuation to my vent on the 2008 boards. . .

#1 to the people who say' OMG WHAT IF IT SNOWS ON YOUR WEDDING' my wedding is in the winter - how many days does it snow in the winter? one - two - MAYBE three - yes there IS a chance that it could snow on my wedding - but guess what? I can't control that. . . so don't bring it up! plus i will have great pictures!

#2To those who say WHY are you waiting so long to get married: NEWS FLASH! I just graduated in May and started my first full time job in June (05) I need to save up some money so i can put excellent food in YOUR stupid mouth. . . . also we dated for eight years before we got engaged - dont know WHY that bothers everyone. . . .so many people say 'how could you wait so long i would have left' well you cant control who you love - and we were 15 when we started dating. . . . so i couldnt very well just STOP loving him bc he wasnt ready to get married!

#3 to people who ask me why I am getting married so far. . . when there are plently of halls in Queens. Okay - the drive from Howard Beach to Jericho Terrace is NOT THAT LONG - get over it! I should have done like my FSIL and gotten married like 4 hours upstate. . . i bet no one complained to her about her wedding! geez

#4 To all those with 'advice' - I do appreciate when people offer vendor ideas and suggestions to me BUT if I already know who I am using don't suggest that your place is sooo much better ( unless you had a specific problem with the service that i should be worried about like a no show)

#5 to all those whose daugghters, granddaughters just got married - i dont really care how when or why they did it - and I am sorry that I am doing it differently but it shouldnt affect you since yOU WON't BE INVITED

#6 to some of the girls that i talked to: NO i do not feel like i have to 'live more' before I get married - short of picking up a male prostitute - there is nothing my FH would prevent me from doing. . . and what exactly are YOU doing that is so exciting? I dont see YOU backpacking across Europe or anything

and the final whopper - to a girl that i thought would be in my BP:

Guess what? when you see an e-ring you DO NOT exclaim 'Oh that must be the new style - i see THAT EXACT RING EVERYWHERE NOW' What the h is that all about? WHO SAYS THAT? and i have never seen my exact ring besides mine - but guess what e rings are basically similar. . . they are just different cuts of diamonds in different settings - what does she want me to do? get a ruby or something? geez

WHEW i feel better now!!

O.k. mine doesnt seem like anything... but....

Baby - COME OUT! My last pregnancy was a BREEZE and I had my son at 36 weeks. This pregnancy has been HORRIBLE. Ive been in pain for weeks and weeks, Ive been on bedrest.. youd think this baby would come earlier.. Nooooo Its not 37 weeks and I am getting CRRAAAAANKY!

My sister & Brother just waltz into my apartment (attached to my parents house) and eat MY food! Um hello you BOTH make more money than me!! Just because mom is away for the weekend and you have to cook for yourselves does not mean you can eat MY food! I PAID for it!!

I am just about afraid to drive! I dont think anyone realizes who really has the right of way anymore! I can think of about 5 instances in the last 2 days where people just about killed me!

Oh and being that the baby has not been born yet I can not join my family at their 4th of July weekend upstate! people came all the way from Florida and I am here home baking with no A/C

O.k. now Im done.

I can't believe I STILL have vents to place on here!!!

To my MOH / cousin: Thank you so much for walking into the hotel on my wedding day with an attitude even though you apologized for being a biatch a few days before. You barely spoke to me at all the entire day, and was ready to back up my BM (almost ex friend right now) when she was b!tching at me. I still am pissed about how that morning went.

Oh yeah, it adds insult to injury that you did not even give me a card. I don't even care about a gift or cash, but damn, not even a card. And here it is I have been married for 2 months now and I have not heard from you. It bites because your parents keep asking when are we coming to visit, and I don't know what to say.

To my BM soon to be ex friend: How freaking dare you gripe to me on my wedding day. Granted, everyone was on time but you didn't have to throw it in my face. After all of the crap I received from you and MOH, I didn't even want you guys in the BP anymore. Jenn, Oksana & Erin should not have had to jump down your throat to defend me that morning. And if you're wondering why I don't even really speak to you now, THAT IS WHY!!!

My only consolation: That I had an amazing day despite all of the BS. But I still feel like I got cheated out of what should have been a great wedding planning experience because of the headaches and the screw ups you 2 have made.

To the pissy receptionist in my office: Say something stupid to me again and watch what happens. My snap back at you on Friday is nothing compared to what I'm capable of telling you. The same goes to the pissy A/R person on my floor.

Stop asking when are we buying a house and when are we having kids. Like it affects your life as to when we plan on doing these things!!! If our own families are not even bothering us about this, why the hell is someone we barely know asking??!!

Ok that feels better!!

How weird is this? I was just about to bump this today.

Doctors: Why did it take over a year for you to find out I had a pituitary tumor?!?!

To random people that just found out that I got married: It is not appropriate for you to ask when we are having kids. I DON'T KNOW YOU!!! And you have no idea what hell my body is going through just trying to live right now.

To all the coffee cake within a 50 mile radius: Stop letting me buy you. Why do you look so good?

I'm sure I'll be back with more.

Here goes....

FH & I were supossed to start attending services at the church where we want to get married. The service we planned on attending was @ 11:30 this morning. Well, he decided that he didn't want to go, he's too tired (he tells me this last night). I told him that he should see how he feels in the morning and he said that he's not going no matter what, he's had a rough weekend and wants to relax (yeah, 2 Yankee games in 2 days is really rough). But he tells me that I can go by myself if I want to. HELLO! I'm not marrying myself, but if I was, I wouldn't blow myself off!!!

Not only that, I spent a decent amount of time last night writing up a rough draft of a guest list because after church we were going to head to one of the RH that were very interested in to get some costs.... NOT DOING THAT EITHER! I'm beyond annoyed!

RP from 06 but totally appropriate


So my mom and I are shopping today and some random chick walks over to me and starts talking to me about my ring, 'thats gorgeous, oh my god, your so lucky' and continues on about how her boyfriend is going to pop the question any day now, and starts asking about the wedding. So mom, lovely mom, starts to tell her about everything. I walked away to go pay for my stuff, and the next thing I hear is ' oh my god shes marrying Rob?!?!' Apparently she is his ex girlfriend from like 6 years ago, she then decides to tell me ' no wonder your having such an over the top wedding, you better take him for everything he has, their house is gorgeous, I cant believe hes marrying you' and then she starts to make the money symbol with her fingers...*** is that?!?! what is wrong with people?!? why would someone say that? oh it gets better she then tells me about how his little sister is like her best friend, and his brother and her hang out still, and how she loves his mom, blah blah blah, at this point I am fighting back tears, I get into the car burst out crying, and call fh, of course her being close to the family is all a total lie, they all told me that they cant stand her, and he only dated her for a few weeks, but come on I really didnt need that today!!!


It just makes me feel better to get it out because everyone around here doesnt seem to understand why I am hurt

Oh this is perfect...here goes:

To my dear MOH: your wedding happened a long time ago, get over it already and kindly remember that this is my wedding we're talking about. I'm sick of hearing what you did at your wedding, I know, I was there remember?

To all the idiots that keep asking me: A) it's none of your freakin business as to why FH and I waited so long to get married and B) the next time you ask me if I'm planning on getting preggo right after the wedding, be prepared cause you might not enjoy my response. Why do people think that it's acceptable to ask such personal questions? Get a life and please stop paying so much attention to mine.

To the person that asks me how much everything cost each time I book a vendor or buy something for the wedding, get a clue...has nobody every told you its rude and inappropriate to ask such questions?

Thanks for the opportunity to vent ladies!

I HATE BM DRESSES... I HATE looking for them, I hate having to listen to people ***** about them... I just hate them!

The above post just set me off again!!!!!

For those that don't know, I had horrific issues with my BM dresses (see my review if you want to know the whole story). They are supposed to be sending me my money back and I still haven't seen a cent. It's not like I need that money for anything.

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Posted by roxyspark

I want to send a big F U to all the people who have made negative comments about my wedding.
Including:

'I hate the Milleridge because it has that big watertower in the back'

'Your colors are green and pink? Ugh, I am not a fan of that combination'

'It sounds like you have a lot of food for the cocktail hour. I bet its from Costco.'

'You want a mashed potato bar during cocktail hour? That sounds dumb.'

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Oh my GOD! I love pink and green together! If I was more into pink it would be my combo but I'm going a different direction. And who has a problem with Costco anyway! and I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO having a mashed potato bar during my cocktail hour! How cool is that? If anyone out there thinks it sounds DUMB just keep it to yourself.

Why, why, WHY do people feel the need to give out their negative opinions!?!? This is SOMEONE ELSES wedding day. Let her do what she wants! Only jump in when *it looks like she is going to spend a whole lot of money on something you KNOW is going to be a huge waste and when you have first hand experience!

Also - what is this childish nonsense I hear of 'ladies' on this board trying to steal your vendor. What the he ll is up with that? How rude, nasty, mean, inconsiderate, f'd up, screwed up and just down right WRONG! How dare you! Really, I just have NO understanding of that kind of ludicris behavior.

Ah, that does feel better, thank you for this thread!

The fact that as the days get closer... FH seems like he can't deal with doing some wedding related tasks... IT IS ANNOYING!!!!