This weekend, FMIL made a comment to me that I did not appreciate. She asked me if I was going to get a veil w/ a blusher. I said that I already got my veil when I ordered my dress because it was a perfect match for the detailing on my dress, and that yes it had a blusher. She asked if I intended on wearing the blusher over my face, because she is very old fashioned about that. Basically inferring that I shouldn't! (A little background on this to help you understand my situation- I have been with FH for 61/2 years. We've lived together for 5 of those years, and we have a 3 year old son.) I have never been married, not has he.
While I am far from a virgin (or virginal-he,he), I always dreamed about my dad lifting my veil on my wedding day. Now I don't know if I should. My Dad is a reverend, and will actually be the one officiating our ceremony. He has not asked the blusher question! Now I feel like she has rained on my parade, and I don't know if it's OK for me to wear the blusher.
What do you ladies think? What's the ettiquite on this?
daniebc16
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Isn't the point of the blusher to hide your red cheeks because you know you shouldn't be wearing white??
werock0709
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Posted by cherilicious16
Is there a polite way to tell her to 'sit on it'?
She put this nicely. But I agree!!!!
Mandyin2007
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It's your decission not FMILs. Don't let her get to you!
Mooshyboo
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I feel it is your day and if this is something you have always dreamed of doing...DO IT!
mycrayon1
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Posted by Audreygirl
i dunno anything about what the etiquette is on this, but i think that it's your day and you should do what makes you happy. if you've always dreamed of wearing a blusher, then do it!!!
I couldn't agree more! Ask your Dad about it, but I say do what you want it's your wedding!
