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Could one of these be THE ONE? *added a photo*

Original post by bemyyoko

I put pictures of me in gowns into my albums.
My Album
These are gowns that either I loved, my MOH loves, or my Mother loves.
Please tell me what you think, and be honest. Everyone just keeps telling me they love them all but I know they don't all look great on me.
I do not have a picture of the other gown i love because no one will let me take photos in it!

After seeing my body type... any suggestions for other gowns or designers to look at?
I'm very top heavy DDD but i am much smaller everywhere else. I'm not skinny by any definition so mermaid styles are probobly out.

Thanks for your help and advice girls.

ETA:
This is the dress i am in love with. It's totally differant from all the others. It's exactly what i always pictured when i was little. I saw the dress online and cried. I have ripped out every picture i've found of it in mags. I have tried it on. I love it. but my mom and my moh kind of went 'EH' to it. they werent impressed.

do you think the dress that looks best is how you should go or the dress you like the best?


bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by Chanwich

I love the lacy one, just without the colored sash. You look great in it!


thank you!

i love that dress, but i feel like it doesnt flatter me. i loved it in the store but in pictures i feel like i look like a fat manatee with giant boobs.
bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by Munchkn16

I like the 2nd one on you a lot... the detail, the train, everything was just beautiful

You might want to try on a halter-style or cap sleeve gown; they tend to balance out 'top-heavy' women.



halters actually make me look ridiculous, and cap sleeves make me shudder.

honestly, the gown i'm in love with is long sleeved, and i love it but no one else likes it on me.
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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Don't go by the pictures alone! I looked at some of the pics of me in dresses, and threw up in my mouth, and I liked the way they looked otherwise.

bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Don't go by the pictures alone! I looked at some of the pics of me in dresses, and threw up in my mouth, and I liked the way they looked otherwise.



but how else do i know how they look?
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

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Blah, I know... lol. I'm really taking the advice of my mom and bm's, and my grandma. I just hate myself in pics.

Munchkn16 Posted:

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You are NOT a manatee!! Lol. It's funny how we always want what we can't have... I know smaller-chested girls that would love to trade bodies with you!

Check out James Clifford, Maggie Sottero, Allure, and Private Label. There's a Private Label dress that has similar detailing to the 2nd dress in your album, but w/ a simpler bottom half of the gown. I think it's style # 1226.
bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Blah, I know... lol. I'm really taking the advice of my mom and bm's, and my grandma. I just hate myself in pics.


My mom has cataracs and she loves the purple sash... her taste cannot be trusted.


My MOH loved a dress that i put $$ down on but now i hate that dress. I think i only fell for it b/c she was so excited about it.

I really wish FH would help me with this. He's the only one who's taste i trust, he knows what i like, he's always honest about what i look good and/or bad in, and he's the only one who i care about liking the damn dress!!
stupid traditions.
AS Posted:

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WOW, they all look great on you. I like #2 and the one with the black ribbon the best

bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by Munchkn16



OH MY GOD
I LOOOOOOVE YOU!!!

i tried on that gown and they wouldnt let me take pictures. I LOOOVED IT! it's exactly what i was looking for in a strapless dress but i couldnt figure out which gown it was on the site.
seriously, will you be my new BFF??

now i can show my mom!!!
bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by MPAS

WOW, they all look great on you. I like #2 and the one with the black ribbon the best


does it really look black? i don't know which dress we're talking about now b/c the first dress has an 'oyster' colored ribbon which is purplish and the last dress has a dark purple sash



oh, and thank you!! you made me blush
jsta76 Posted:

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Posted by bemyyoko


Posted by jsta76

I really liked the first one!!! I was originally looking for something like that but ended up with the one I bought

Honestly, I didn't care for the one with the black waist. I thought you looked much better in the other ones....I hope thats not your fave because then i'm gonna sound like a b-tch

FYI, I think you look really cute in all of them :)



no, i asked for honesty. you don't sound like a b*tch at all.
the waist is purple, and it'd be the same color i have my girls in...
but i hate how it cuts me in half like that. i feel like the sash makes me look like i'm all boobs.



Sometimes people get upset especially if thats their fave...but from what I see some of the other girls feel the same way...I didn't like how it cut you either. I just didn't want to say that.... LOL

I went to DB first and was SOOOOOOO convinced I wanted to do the color sash because of how it cut me. Since I AM all boobs, it made me look like I actually had a figure.

I hated every dress I tried on after that especially when it didn't have any color. Then I found MY dress and it wasn't at all what I thought it would be :) It's technically not white so i'm happy.
bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by bemyyoko


Posted by jsta76

I really liked the first one!!! I was originally looking for something like that but ended up with the one I bought

Honestly, I didn't care for the one with the black waist. I thought you looked much better in the other ones....I hope thats not your fave because then i'm gonna sound like a b-tch

FYI, I think you look really cute in all of them :)



no, i asked for honesty. you don't sound like a b*tch at all.
the waist is purple, and it'd be the same color i have my girls in...
but i hate how it cuts me in half like that. i feel like the sash makes me look like i'm all boobs.



Sometimes people get upset especially if thats their fave...but from what I see some of the other girls feel the same way...I didn't like how it cut you either. I just didn't want to say that.... LOL

I went to DB first and was SOOOOOOO convinced I wanted to do the color sash because of how it cut me. Since I AM all boobs, it made me look like I actually had a figure.

I hated every dress I tried on after that especially when it didn't have any color. Then I found MY dress and it wasn't at all what I thought it would be :) It's technically not white so i'm happy.



i AM all boobs too. at 5'3' and a DDD it's all i am. i feel like the dress with the giant sash just emphasizes that.

i want to 'show them off' a bit b/c they have done me well in life but at the same time, i want people to look at ME for once and not just the ladies.
jsta76 Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Blah, I know... lol. I'm really taking the advice of my mom and bm's, and my grandma. I just hate myself in pics.


My mom has cataracs and she loves the purple sash... her taste cannot be trusted.


My MOH loved a dress that i put $$ down on but now i hate that dress. I think i only fell for it b/c she was so excited about it.

I really wish FH would help me with this. He's the only one who's taste i trust, he knows what i like, he's always honest about what i look good and/or bad in, and he's the only one who i care about liking the damn dress!!
stupid traditions.



I agree completely...I keep on wanting to talk and ask FH about it, but I make him leave the room anytime we talk about dresses
adamluvsericka Posted:

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you are so right! I wish i could show FH my dress and see if he likes it, he's the only one I care about and he would be completely honest with me.

I like the last one, but without the sash as well. i think it has a little bit of 'spanish' feel to it because of the lace, and that's why i like. i'm biased, cuz that's those are the styles that I was looking for...but overall i think they are all really nice and you do/will gorgeous in any of them!!
AS Posted:

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Posted by bemyyoko


Posted by MPAS

WOW, they all look great on you. I like #2 and the one with the black ribbon the best


does it really look black? i don't know which dress we're talking about now b/c the first dress has an 'oyster' colored ribbon which is purplish and the last dress has a dark purple sash



oh, and thank you!! you made me blush



The last one, sorry if I got the colors wrong , either way they all really look great on you. Its going to be a tough to decide
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Chanwich

I love the lacy one, just without the colored sash. You look great in it!


thank you!

i love that dress, but i feel like it doesnt flatter me. i loved it in the store but in pictures i feel like i look like a fat manatee with giant boobs.



I AGREE its a pretty dress but doesnt flatter you, it doesnt emphasize your waist and makes you look wider than the other dresses
Tori9299 Posted:

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I love the 3rd one.

bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

Blah, I know... lol. I'm really taking the advice of my mom and bm's, and my grandma. I just hate myself in pics.


My mom has cataracs and she loves the purple sash... her taste cannot be trusted.


My MOH loved a dress that i put $$ down on but now i hate that dress. I think i only fell for it b/c she was so excited about it.

I really wish FH would help me with this. He's the only one who's taste i trust, he knows what i like, he's always honest about what i look good and/or bad in, and he's the only one who i care about liking the damn dress!!
stupid traditions.



I agree completely...I keep on wanting to talk and ask FH about it, but I make him leave the room anytime we talk about dresses



FH won't talk about it no matter how hard i try. He is sooo traditional it's making me sick lol. He's my best friend, he's the only one i trust with NORMAL EVERY DAY CLOTHES!! ugh. so frustrating.
bemyyoko Posted:

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Posted by bemyyoko


Posted by MPAS

WOW, they all look great on you. I like #2 and the one with the black ribbon the best


does it really look black? i don't know which dress we're talking about now b/c the first dress has an 'oyster' colored ribbon which is purplish and the last dress has a dark purple sash



oh, and thank you!! you made me blush



The last one, sorry if I got the colors wrong , either way they all really look great on you. Its going to be a tough to decide



you werent the only one to say black so don't feel bad. i'm glad people are saying that now, b/c it gives me the chance to change colors. i want a purple purple, not a purple that looks black.

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