crying at work !! over my bridal party drama!! cant do it anymore!! cancelling BP!
ajlgmm815
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crying at work !! over my bridal party drama!! cant do it anymore!! cancelling BP!
So just when I thought the drama was settled! We went to get the BP dresses and apparently my MOHZilla (my younger sis) decides to start talking crap about how she hates the dresses and she is not paying for a dress that she hates! She then got my mom to side with her and my mom is trying to convince me to let her get a different dress which i dont really have a problem with except there is a problem with every dress i have picked and its never while we are at the dress store always after. Apparently my other Moh( my other sister) and my mom exchanged words and now she wants to back out because she doesnt want to deal with my mom and sis! I really cant do this anymore! i work full tim, go to school full time and try to wedding plan with the bridal party from hell. Im over it I told my mom and my sisters That we are not going to do a BP so they can wear what ever the hell they want but know that they ruined a memorable, supposed to be beautiful event in my life!!
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honestly, its your day and if they don't like it then they don't have to be in your wedding. it's not about THEM it's about YOU. sorry you're having a bad day.
ETA: to keep the peace, have you considered picking out a designer and a color and fabric and letting them pick whatever dress they want. this way they're all wearing the same designer & color but get to wear a dress they like.
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oh no, i'm so sorry that this has happened to you
maybe they can still wear whatever they want and still walk with you on your wedding day? or is this all completely out of the question now?
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I am sorry to hear that, but don't feel bad I have been dealing with BP Drama too. My sister-in-law has not returned my phones calls about dress shopping, come to find out she is PO that I am not having her son in my Bridal Party. She knew two years ago who was going to be in my BP and did not have a problem then, now she has a problem. So I made it easy for her she does not have to be in my BP. Final decision!!!!!! I hope everything works out for you!!!!
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Why can't people just learn that sometimes they have to do, buy or wear things that they may not like but that make other people happy?
I'm sorry you're going through this.
VickiR510
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Thats crazy! Yoru sisters are suposed to be there for you & to make this experience even more wonderful & with less stress as possible. Im sorry u have to deal with this! I guess they are kind of selfish for thinking about themselves & nto you!
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I'm sorry that you have to deal with this and it's family...... What if you let them keep the color but let then pick a style. I know it kinda sounds like your letting them win but at least theres not headache....... I see more and more brides letting BP chose their own style of dress....
ajlgmm815
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I told my MOHZILLA that she could pick a different style but she Bitched and complained because now she has to go back to davids bridal and look! Also she is mad because the sales girl said she should order the dress in a 4 , my MOh is usually a 2 but she is pregnant and is due in june so in case she doesnt bounce back the dress can fit or if she does it can be altered to a smaller size. She thinks its bull that she has to pay for alterations!!
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Posted by ajlgmm815
I told my MOHZILLA that she could pick a different style but she Bitched and complained because now she has to go back to davids bridal and look! Also she is mad because the sales girl said she should order the dress in a 4 , my MOh is usually a 2 but she is pregnant and is due in june so in case she doesnt bounce back the dress can fit or if she does it can be altered to a smaller size. She thinks its bull that she has to pay for alterations!!
Does she also relaize that dresses run 1 size smaller??? My girls who are a 2 had to get a 4 as well.
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omg! its the worst when your own family does this to you. I can totally relate, I also have a MOHzilla (my older sis)... she has a problem with everything I do and she doesnt like any dress I pick out for her. I understand people saying let them choose the dress, but Im not for that, sorry, JMO. Its my wedding. Im paying for the entire thing with FH and I have a vision, so I want to pick the dresses. Agreeing to me in the BP, they should know that they just go along with it because we will repay the favor when its their time and they pick out ugly dresses for us! lol (not to say that the dresses you chose are ugly)
Re: crying at work !! over my bridal party drama!! cant do it anymore!! cancelling BP!
hey Gloria...i cant believe your sisters are still doing this to you! i think its jealousy...friggin women...beatches...lol my friend had this same issues a few years back and she did what they call a kings court...she just had 1 moh and then all men...just groomsmen....i must say it relieved a lot of her stress and the pics were great....
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Oh Lord.....I don't understand Davids Bridal. They shouldn't stop you from buying a size, your still buying it.....
Anyway I'm sorry..... Give a day or two let things cool off... I'm sorry if I'm not much help It too could be the pregnancy talking, all the hormones out of wack.....
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I'm so sorry, that is awful! You shouldn't have to deal with any of this.
I agree with the suggestion of others...pick a designer and fabric and let them pick the style if they are going to be PITA! Otherwise, so long...you don't need the crap!
littlepixie12
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Posted by Steffie
Oh Lord.....I don't understand Davids Bridal. They shouldn't stop you from buying a size, your still buying it.....
Anyway I'm sorry..... Give a day or two let things cool off... I'm sorry if I'm not much help It too could be the pregnancy talking, all the hormones out of wack.....
I have to say that I was a MOH before and bought my dress for BD and Im a size 1-2 and I had to order the size 4 and it was still snug, so if your sis is preggers and not sure if she will lose the wieght by then, I would almost go for the size 6 to be safe. There stuff runs really small
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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You dont have to have a BP.... It looks like it would save you alot of stress if you didnt! All you really need is a witness to sign the license not 10 annoying people will only give you grief
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Sorry sweetie.... you seriously need to tell the bad sister that it's your damn wedding and if she can't make up her mind then you are going do it for her. If she has a problem with that then *F* off and don't be a part of it. It's your day NOT HERS and you are over the drama. It really ***** that other peoples selfishness can ruin such a happy time in your life.
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I think your mom and the moh with the issues with dress should really back the f off. I would sit them down and say it is your wedding and that you are picking the dress. I am sure you did this all ready so perhaps you might have to take the extreme and say that your calling off bp. Honestly it saves you the drama and no one can say anything since it was your sis/mom that had to be picky and caused you do it.
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My sister HATED my dress too.... I actually ended up switching dresses and was happier b/c of it in the end. What does your dress look like? Can you post it so that we can take a look?
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I am sorry you are going threw this. This is your wedding you should have what you want. If there is a dress you want your BP to wear then get it. If they don't like it then they don't have to be in your BP and then they can wear what they want to your wedding. The day is about you when it's there wedding they can make there BP wear the dress they want. Thinks will work out. Don't let other people wreck this time for you. I know it is easier said then done.
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Posted by ajlgmm815
So just when I thought the drama was settled! We went to get the BP dresses and apparently my MOHZilla (my younger sis) decides to start talking crap about how she hates the dresses and she is not paying for a dress that she hates! She then got my mom to side with her and my mom is trying to convince me to let her get a different dress which i dont really have a problem with except there is a problem with every dress i have picked and its never while we are at the dress store always after. Apparently my other Moh( my other sister) and my mom exchanged words and now she wants to back out because she doesnt want to deal with my mom and sis! I really cant do this anymore! i work full tim, go to school full time and try to wedding plan with the bridal party from hell. Im over it I told my mom and my sisters That we are not going to do a BP so they can wear what ever the hell they want but know that they ruined a memorable, supposed to be beautiful event in my life!!
Just do a MOH and BM that is what we are doimg I dont have the time or the patience to deal wtith the Drama - It is your day not theirs.
