Dad has passed away. My 3/27 wedding is being postponed. Feeling very down.

Original post by StepherG

Mar 22, 2004 11:12 AM

My father's cancer spread the last week of February and he passed away on March 11. I can't even express what I am going through right now. He was supposed to walk me down the aisle on Saturday. I feel broken. I'm not even sure why I'm writing this, but somehow I feel that I needed to tell you all since you've been so kind to me.

We are trying to pick up the pieces. My FH has taken control of everything for the wedding. He has rescheduled it to August 1st for us. Our vendors have been so wonderful. They applied all deposits to our new wedding date. I'm scared for that day though...how will I ever get down the aisle without my dad?

Hope all of the other 3/27 brides have a beautiful day. I'll be thinking of you.

Stephanie

lilqtny Posted: Mar 22, 2004 04:06 PM

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I'm so sorry!

violet Posted: Mar 22, 2004 04:08 PM

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I'm so sorry for you. I wish you the best.

neen Posted: Mar 22, 2004 04:21 PM

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So sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my prayers.

lovergirl Posted: Mar 22, 2004 04:35 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss

regi Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:00 PM

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Oh sweetie, I am so very sorry. Your family is in my prayers. God Bless.

2003fallwedding Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:03 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss.

mrswask Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:08 PM

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Sweetie - I am so sorry to hear about your loss - there is nothing that we can do - but we are here to listen and send support!

july0105 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:09 PM

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Hi Stephanie -- I don't know you, but I can imagine how you are feeling, because I am in a similar situation. My prayers are with you. Don't forget to let people take care of you when you need them too -- thank god for your FI. Take care!

Alison

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:16 PM

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im so sorry i am sending you fm because i know exactly what your going through because i too had to walk down the aisle without my father.

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:43 PM

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I am so sorry You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
I am sure that on your new wedding date it will be hard but your wonderful father will be watching over you and will be beside you in your heart.
If you need to talk to anyone please feel free to FM me.

V&S03 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:48 PM

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
On your wedding day keep a smile on your face by knowing that your dad will be there with you in spirit and he wouldn't want you to be sad

heidla Posted: Mar 22, 2004 05:50 PM

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I am so sorry!

FrescaBride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 06:03 PM

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Please accept my condolences. It's very sad to hear that. It will be very though not to have your dad on that special day but maybe your mom or your older brother can do it and it will show how strong your family is. One of my friends did that. And think that your father will very much like to see that all of you, celebrate your day and enjoyed it. He will be giving you his blessing wherever he is and will be happy for you, your FH and your family. I always think when someone passes that we should celebrate their lives and the love they gave us so that way we can grieve a little better. Hang in there! My prayers will be with you and yours