Dad has passed away. My 3/27 wedding is being postponed. Feeling very down.

Original post by StepherG

Mar 22, 2004 11:12 AM

My father's cancer spread the last week of February and he passed away on March 11. I can't even express what I am going through right now. He was supposed to walk me down the aisle on Saturday. I feel broken. I'm not even sure why I'm writing this, but somehow I feel that I needed to tell you all since you've been so kind to me.

We are trying to pick up the pieces. My FH has taken control of everything for the wedding. He has rescheduled it to August 1st for us. Our vendors have been so wonderful. They applied all deposits to our new wedding date. I'm scared for that day though...how will I ever get down the aisle without my dad?

Hope all of the other 3/27 brides have a beautiful day. I'll be thinking of you.

Stephanie

wenndypoo Posted: Mar 22, 2004 12:57 PM

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This is horrible, I am so so sorry for your loss.

Ladybug63 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:17 PM

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I'm so sorry!!!!!!!!!

nov2004bride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:21 PM

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I am so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers

samsbride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:48 PM

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Your father will be looking down and will be there for your wedding appreciating every moment with a wonderful view. Don't forget that!!! I know it's hard not to cry and it's OK to do that of course but just know that it is still a happy time and your dad is not missing the event. The sad part is that you can't see him but he will be there.

SteffieSunshine1 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:50 PM

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I am so sorry for you loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

paulandles912 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:50 PM

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I also wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss and will keep you in my prayers....

Leslie

GIGIBRIDE04 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:51 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear about you loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

nj42305 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:55 PM

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So sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family

smilealways Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:56 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear of this sad news. You and your family are in my prayers.

jackiebean Posted: Mar 22, 2004 01:56 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear of you loss. But he will be there with you from now until your wedding day..

eddysbride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 02:06 PM

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I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your family.

9.17.04bride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 02:09 PM

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sorry for your loss.

July2004Bride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:19 PM

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I am so sorry for you loss

MOHmissy Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:21 PM

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I am so sorry to hear that...you and your family are in my thoughts...

even if he is not there with you physically, he will sill be there with you in every other sense...

hang in there

Maribelle7777 Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:23 PM

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My deepest and sincerest condolences to you and your family.

You have a very loving and supportive FH!

You will make it down that aisle. Your dad would want you to

Good luck to you

Mary

JP&EP Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:24 PM

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I am so very sorry for your loss and your pain. Please accept my condolences. My prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family.

Rainmama Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:40 PM

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First of all, many, many hugs to you!!!!
Although I can't say I know how you feel I do know what you've been through. I lost my own father to cancer just last August. It's something that even now, 6 months later, is extremely painful for me. I promise you that each day will get easier!
I'm not sure what else to say but please, please FM me if you need anyone to talk to!!!

bobbsbride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:41 PM

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I am very sorry for your loss!!

JimmysBride Posted: Mar 22, 2004 03:59 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss....

nferrandi Posted: Mar 22, 2004 04:05 PM

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I am so sorry for your loss, and I can understand how you can't even picture your wedding without him. Don't even think about the wedding right now, let your FH handle that and you just take your time dealing with your own feelings. You can always have your mother, or brother if you have one, walk you down the aisle and you can honor your father's memory at your wedding as well. If there's anything at all I can do to help, just ask.