Dear the 6 guests, who were last minute cancellations...

seta Posted: Nov 09, 2006 05:27 PM

Dear the 6 guests, who were last minute cancellations...

As much as i try to sympathize with your unforeseen circumstances, we are out over 800.00 for your failure to attend as you responded....

The least you can do is send us a gift or call to wish us the best!!!!

Edited to say....I COULD HAVE HAD A DOC with that money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LuvMyMichael Posted: Nov 09, 2006 05:32 PM

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some people.

MJDoc12 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 05:36 PM

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wow that suucks!!!!!! and you're so right, you could've gotten a DOC with that amount. ppl stink!

MayBride06 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 06:41 PM

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At least it was only six...but at this point...forget about it!! It's their loss!!!

bettybcafe Posted: Nov 09, 2006 09:34 PM

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GRRRRRRRRRR

snydl40 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 09:35 PM

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Buttheads

aliwnec10 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 08:39 AM

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i know this is not the polite thing to do but i often find that the polite thing to do makes you a doormat sometimes...

i'm tempted to send a thank you card to the 1 guest who didn't show up at my wedding. I'm tempted to tell her thanks for not showing up, calling, or sending a congrats card and tell her how rude that was.

(i don't think people should get away with this sort of thing because it's not right).

hmpena Posted: Nov 10, 2006 08:41 AM

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I hear ya! I had 10 no shows and not one sent a gift or a card.

aliwnec10 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 08:45 AM

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Posted by hmpena

I hear ya! I had 10 no shows and not one sent a gift or a card.

see that's so not right and incredibly rude!!! So here's my question:

why is it rude to say something to that person who didn't come? Most will tell you to just forget about it... but seriously... if you're as mad as i am... you're never going to talk to that person again. So why not say what you have to say them first?

ali120206 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 08:57 AM

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I still can't believe people do this, I understand sometimes things come up at the last minute but, no call? No card? Nothing??? An email???

I'm finding out during this wedding planning process how thoughtless some individuals can be. I know each of our wedding is more important to us than anyone else but, it's just common courtesy!

Hamptonsbride06 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 10:07 AM

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I had 16 no shows....16!!!!!!!! It was $5600 of no shows!

kellwolfe Posted: Nov 10, 2006 10:12 AM

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Im sorry thats horrible!

Thumballina Posted: Nov 10, 2006 10:50 AM

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Seriously where do people get their B A L L S????

How very rude...we are thinking we will get stiffed by 4 no shows - FH's cousins -

They never responded and we needed to know yes or no - he called them 5 times asking them to just either leave a message telling us if they were coming or to send the rsvp card...she finally called back to say yes after FH called a sixth time and left a message saying that he is marking them as no's...

The thing is they responded yes to my shower - TWO days before and never showed... We will be out well over $550 - if they decide they have better things to do that night

Thumballina Posted: Nov 10, 2006 10:51 AM

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Posted by princessofci

I had 16 no shows....16!!!!!!!! It was $5600 of no shows!

O M G....THAT is terrible

BEANS Posted: Nov 10, 2006 10:53 AM

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I guess I am the minority here. I had zero no shows. I guess we were lucky.

Kerrycec Posted: Nov 10, 2006 11:07 AM

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grrr, luckily most who couldn't come sent a gift. I would wait a couple more weeks, you never know (fingers crossed.....)

ellebelle1 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 11:15 AM

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That really *****. Are you going to make those people aware of there damaging effects?

Tina120206 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 11:22 AM

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are you kidding me? Some people are just class with a CAPITAL K...........

seta Posted: Nov 10, 2006 03:31 PM

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Glad I am not the only one.....just to clarify, these last minute cancellations did call us THE DAY BEFORE.....except for one!!! Poor DH had two couples and I had two singles....but we both had to listen to to BS excuses from these people the day before....

The only person who was a no show that did not call was my cousin..who was supposed to sit at my moms table!!! The kicker from her was...when i got home from the HM, I found a message from her saying how she got lost coming to the church and went home since she missed every one??????