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Okay thank you girls. I was in the middle of a anxiety attack so you truly helped.

SOrry about the whole bar mix up i wasn't writing clearly. Thank you so much for your honest opinions<3

I will be writing her an email now to tell ehr how I feel...
Jenny

ps- please don't quote, I'll have to take this down..

i wouldnt cut off alcohol after dinner..

if ppl find out..they;ll prob try to drink as much as they can during dinner..and ur guna have sloppy drunk guests lol..

if ur worried bout ur sis getting hammered..have ur bp keep her occupied so she doesnt drink as much.

ur not wrong at all though. i could see where u dont want her getting shtfaced.. i wouldnt either.


link us to the youtube video tho lolol

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Posted by DnJ0809

When you say the bar will stop serving after dinner do you mean no more alcohol served at all? Or if you want a drink it will be a cash bar?

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Only wine on the tables/ This saves us 500.00- This isn't what anyone has a problem with though, She flipped that I said she shouldn't get trashed...

Well, I dont want my sister to be completely trashed at my wedding, but I do want her to have a good time. I dont think you are being a bridezilla, b/c if she normally cant control herself when drunk... then it does become an issue.

As for the stopping the drinks after dinner... is there something else you can cut a corner on? Im sorry- just being honest here... but if I went to a wedding and they cut off drinks after dinner, I would be VERY annoyed. Please dont take this the wrong way, but I don't think people will like that very much.... sorry- but Id rather be honest and let you know now, before people start talking about how you cut drinks off the next day.

I think if she legitimately will take her clothes off or do something disrespectful like that, regardless if the bar is closed after a certain point, someone should be put in charge of her to make sure that she doesn't drink. It's really sad that someone would have to be put in charge of babysitting on your night, but judging from the way it sounds that's the way it has to be.

I'm very sorry you have to worry about that. I'm worried myself about certain friends getting out of hand at the bar.

And don't get me wrong, I'm the first one to say I have a stick up my coolie myself...but that's just not cool.

I have to agree I dont think it is a good idea to stop the bar after dinner I would cut back somewhere else.

as far as your sister goes she is wrong and you are not being a bridezilla

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Well, I dont want my sister to be completely trashed at my wedding, but I do want her to have a good time. I dont think you are being a bridezilla, b/c if she normally cant control herself when drunk... then it does become an issue.

As for the stopping the drinks after dinner... is there something else you can cut a corner on? Im sorry- just being honest here... but if I went to a wedding and they cut off drinks after dinner, I would be VERY annoyed. Please dont take this the wrong way, but I don't think people will like that very much.... sorry- but Id rather be honest and let you know now, before people start talking about how you cut drinks off the next day.

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I edited the post. The bar will end after dinner... There will be wine on tables and liquor for dessert. This is how the last three family weddings were and no one minded. It is only immediate family/friends at the wedding.

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Posted by coldasice217

I think if she legitimately will take her clothes off or do something disrespectful like that, regardless if the bar is closed after a certain point, someone should be put in charge of her to make sure that she doesn't drink. It's really sad that someone would have to be put in charge of babysitting on your night, but judging from the way it sounds that's the way it has to be.

I'm very sorry you have to worry about that. I'm worried myself about certain friends getting out of hand at the bar.

And don't get me wrong, I'm the first one to say I have a stick up my coolie myself...but that's just not cool.

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Thank you. I would say out of our 100 guests, 80 of them do not drink at all. Maybe a glass of wine. At my bils wedding they paid for the 'By the bottle' bar, and the bar tender said 'Wow, no one drinks' lol

THis is what I'm worrie about. Espesially since she basically made it sound like this is what she was planning on :(

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Well, I dont want my sister to be completely trashed at my wedding, but I do want her to have a good time. I dont think you are being a bridezilla, b/c if she normally cant control herself when drunk... then it does become an issue.

As for the stopping the drinks after dinner... is there something else you can cut a corner on? Im sorry- just being honest here... but if I went to a wedding and they cut off drinks after dinner, I would be VERY annoyed. Please dont take this the wrong way, but I don't think people will like that very much.... sorry- but Id rather be honest and let you know now, before people start talking about how you cut drinks off the next day.

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I edited the post. The bar will end after dinner... There will be wine on tables and liquor for dessert. This is how the last three family weddings were and no one minded. It is only immediate family/friends at the wedding.

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Oh okay, well if no one minds and the wine is still going to be getting pumped out onto those tables then you should be fine lol Maybe just talk to your sister without making her feel like shes a sloppy drunk. Just let her know that you want her to have fun, but also be able to remember your day and if something comes up... she can help you

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Posted by DnJ0809

Nevermind! Didn't see your edit.

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lol
i edited too late


Yes yes, liquor served to the tables and wine on the tables. Yes yes lol... Im not that insane to stop the alcahol completely

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Posted by xosweetiexo

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Posted by PoppedInASnap

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Well, I dont want my sister to be completely trashed at my wedding, but I do want her to have a good time. I dont think you are being a bridezilla, b/c if she normally cant control herself when drunk... then it does become an issue.

As for the stopping the drinks after dinner... is there something else you can cut a corner on? Im sorry- just being honest here... but if I went to a wedding and they cut off drinks after dinner, I would be VERY annoyed. Please dont take this the wrong way, but I don't think people will like that very much.... sorry- but Id rather be honest and let you know now, before people start talking about how you cut drinks off the next day.

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I edited the post. The bar will end after dinner... There will be wine on tables and liquor for dessert. This is how the last three family weddings were and no one minded. It is only immediate family/friends at the wedding.

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Oh okay, well if no one minds and the wine is still going to be getting pumped out onto those tables then you should be fine lol Maybe just talk to your sister without making her feel like shes a sloppy drunk. Just let her know that you want her to have fun, but also be able to remember your day and if something comes up... she can help you

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I was hoping she was changing....but it seems like she is just back to her old ways

im not a big drinker so i would not mind..i dont think u r being a bridezilla..i mean 500 bucks is alot..i just want to warn u some guests may have a problem with that..some not all and i say as long as they know(like bartender telling them) i think its fine..i mean bottom line its ur wedding and people should come to celebrate not to get hammered,just sometimes people dont thinklike that

as for ur sister..im sorry she said those things to u..i would def keep an eye on her and make sure ur video is not her falling over something..hth feel better and remember its ur day..so what u and fh want not what is supposed to be 'right'

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Posted by RobNCyn

I absolutely think you are NOT being a bridezilla . . . if your sister wants to get that drunk than tell her she has to drink fast before the bar stops serving :-P

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That's the problemthough...i don't want her drunk... shes a bad drunk.... bad bad