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DKaye09 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:09 AM

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OMG... I am absolutely disgusted to hear that you are dealing with this. That is ridiculous!!

And I was going to pop on here quick to vent about my MOH, but after reading this.....

Karsav7096 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:10 AM

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I am very laid back and nothing phases me. But this is a OMFG are you kidding me. I would be beyond livid and would most likely bounce that b iotch out. You have every right to be beyond pi$$ed! You know what F her and just focus on YOUR special day with or without her.

Maybe she is jealous of your amazing shoes and purse!!

las1 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:22 AM

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Wow yes I would be mad too. To get married the day of your wedding? What is it a race to the alter? Or is she afraid her fiance will change his mind and dump her?

So sorry you are going through this with less than a month away. Hopefully you have other BM's that are nice and care about you.

Yes she should get the award for worst BM

coldasice217 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:25 AM

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OMG. I am shocked. That reeks of jealousy and spite. I would probably throw her out for a ridiculous act like that.

Jflod710 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:28 AM

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Posted by KittyGags

Get your boots on and kick her a$$ to the curb!

ITA!!!

KYBride09 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:42 AM

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I would be so upset, but I won't stay quiet about it. I will for sure let her know how I feel, and if she doesn't underestand, I will kick her out

MrsCM Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:43 AM

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Wow! I'd kick her @s$ out

Sarahgetsmarried Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:43 AM

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Honestly?

Im in shock!!!!

WHAT is WRONG with her?????????

Shock.

JAAMS Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:44 AM

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wow, this seems a tad ridiculous to me! especially #4..whaaaaat!!!

jcreilly Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:44 AM

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10'er crashing
OMG thats is one of the worst tthings I have ever heard a BM doing!

MrsBlueRibbon Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:47 AM

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Kerri I can't even believe this! The first 3 things are annoying, but getting married on your wedding day, when she is a bridesmaid!!!!!?????
I'm so sad to say, this girl is NOT your friend. It's amazing what you find out about people during the wedding process. You know I didn't end up gettimg married last month, but I had a situation with a BM too. While most of my friends have gone above and beyond for me during this awful time, she has been the complete opposite. She wasn't much help at all in the planning process either. I'm sorry you are going through this, but kick this girl out! There should be no negativity whatsoever on your wedding day!

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:00 AM

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the sad thing is if she asked you to be her BM you would do a good job because you are a good person and a good friend! unlike other people!!!!!!

can you explain why she is getting married?

springsandra Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:02 AM

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I would kick her out of the BP and un-invite her to the wedding. Also delete her as my FB friend and take her # out of my cell phone.

There are certain people worth being friends with in this world, and others that are better letting go of.

This 'person' is not worth your time, energy, or anything.

KerriJohnS Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:04 AM

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mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:08 AM

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Wow!

I have NOOOOO words for that.

bag19 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:13 AM

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wait so she would still have the eparty even after getting married? or would it turn into a reception?? this girl sounds like a lunatic!
i'm so sorry you have to put up with this nonsense so close to your big day. you've planned for months and months and it's obvious that this b!tch is just JEALOUS!!!!! dump Miss Crazy and move on!!!!

NikkiR515 Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:14 AM

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Posted by MLAngelo

By the way if 4 is true I would kick her out. I am usually the one saying give BMs a chance and usually against kicking girls out. But I have a feeling she will be running around your wedding saying... 'I got married today also' and trying to steel your thunder. Who needs that.

ITA!!! It sounds like someone is trying to make YOUR day about THEM and that is NOT cool!

Mad doesn't even begin to describe it, I would be livid!!!!

kmiller Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:15 AM

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I am seriously in shock. I can't believe that people exist that are that selfish!!!

The first few were enough for me to be really mad...but #4 is beyond bad. Its soap opera worth, what is the meanest worst thing I can possibly do besides try to sleep with your FH, thing that she could do to tarnish the day for you.

What the hell is wrong with people? She is really not your friend. It is so unfortunate that such a happy event brings out the worst in some people.

VallieGirl Posted: Oct 08, 2009 11:21 AM

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OMG.

I'm very late to creating an account here, but I have been lurking forever.

Since you are my date twin, I had to sign up just to tell you your bm has lost her mind. Plllllease try to enjoy your day and ignore her if you can. She sounds like a self absorbed hot mess.