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jteach711 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 04:58 PM

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jgl Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:01 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

its ok dont beat yourself up over it - it was a tough thing to pass up. just make sure you practice your surprised face and let anyone know you knew

FHs step cousin ended up knowing about hers ans she cam in with a fake surprised look and then was like OH I KNEW her mom looked so sad.

so just play alng with the whole thing like you dont know!

chrispar Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:01 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

Don't feel like a bad person That is totally something I would do. I am trying to be as evasive as possible because you said you were taking this post down but just act like you have no idea. I bet you are really excited though

hyphenbride Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:03 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

Aw, you're not a bad person. I have crazy curiosity about things like that too.

I would stop feeling bad and get over it. The best thing you can do at this point is to pretend you never saw it, show up, pretend to be surprised and tell your mom and sis what a great job they did surprising you.

Please don't waste your time feeling guilty.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:04 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

kristin597 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:05 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

Stop making yourself feel so bad. I know I would have read the invites too. Just do your best to push it aside and when the day comes act surprised! Stop beating yourself up!!

jteach711 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:07 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

Thanks guys, I guess a bride is the only one who can understand. I guess I just have to forget about it and move on. But YAY!

jennyort1 Posted: Feb 18, 2008 05:08 PM

Re: I feel like such a bad person

Don't feel bad. I have done that before and I could see my self doing it. I saw my engagement ring before he gave it to me and it's was supposed to be a surprise.
I think shower is going to still be a surprise because you really don't know exactly what they have planned for you so just enjoy the fact that you know more than you should