get really upset when they heard what they're fi did for their bach party? mine fi's was sat and i guess i shouldn't have asked if i didn't want to know the answers, but the thought of him having his hands on strippers makes me ill and really mad at the same time. am i crazy? pre-wedding stress? did anyone else feel like this? god i hope i'm not going crazy.
I'm already getting nervous! Of course I trust my FI with all my heart, but I just hope his friends don't get too carried away. No touching is the rule that I want to lay down. His best man is here visiting and I said I'd rather them go to a strip club and just watch than have some 'woman' come to a hotel room or something. Of course I want to go to a spa or go out to karaoke or something tame like that. Why do guys have to make it like its their last time to leave the house?! Don't worry; I'm sure what you're feeling is totally normal.
My DH played paintball and I loved seeing the photos from it! He's not the kind to want strippers and his friends didn't do that to him. They all had a blast! I must admit I do love the paintball party too because it didn't involve strippers. I guess those are two things that won't ever be combined (stripping and paintball).
I think this is a topic that illicits different reactions from different women. I don't mind if DH goes to a strip club for the occasional bach party...but I guess since Dh's bach party was a this mom's ranch in AZ...I knew nothing more than drinking, 4 wheeling and golf was going on...
hubby also had a few parties to attend over the summer, and one more in Oct. I know there are strippers, but I totally trust him, and that is all you can do.
