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Original post by grkbarbie

Mar 11, 2009 08:45 AM

so.. i found THE ONE.. 2nd dress i put on and it looked offfffff the HOOK! lolol

but.. its a lil hooochie. maybe im overreacting cuz my mom didnt flip out? (shes the most serious uptite,but veryyyyy sweet women on earth).. i was told i can have them add straps and they could pick up the dress from up top more..

its that heart shape strapless... so u see BOOBS. i also suggested to put in a piece of cloth in my cleavage for the church cuz i didnt feel comfy.

but as far as the actual reception..i wont need a 2nd party dress cuz this 1 is IT!

BUT.. the ladies at the store suggested my hair to be worn UP!. i NEVER EVERRR wear my hair up! ive never taken a good pic with my hair up... aside from the 1 where i was kissing a pigs corpse in the supermarket.

soo.. do i find a dress where i can wear my hair down? or do i just buy the dress wear my hair the way i want to?

also theres A LOTTT of TULLE on the dress.. is it wack?? on the site the dress looks nothing like it does when i wear it cuz the model has zero curves. i didnt even recognize it. (dimitrios db106)

im loosing sleep over thiss! some feedback pleaseee
thank uuu

LouieDianna2010 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 09:35 AM

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OMG!!! im loving the dress!!! and i think the girls look amazing in it!!! but if dont feel comfortable i say go for the fabric between the cleavage.. and as far as your hair goes, wear it however you feel comfortable!! its your day and your going to look beautiful no matter what!!!!!!

CloudNine Posted: Mar 11, 2009 09:43 AM

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if you love the dress then go for it.
if you feel that you are going to be uncomfotable at any point during your wedding day then maybe you should rethink it or add a panel of fabric or straps.
the tulle is fine..its a wedding gown!
what matters most is if you feel gorgeous in it and comfy

maybe try on some more and try that one on again to see if you love it just as much?

MrsC2010 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 09:44 AM

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i love the dress! you look beautiful!

i think putting a cloth in the cleveage is a good idea for the church at least...im sure they can make something that looks really nice.

i actually think your hair down or half up half down would look better with this dress....but def wear it however you feel most comfortable...dont listen to the women in the store!

asg450 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 09:51 AM

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I think the dress is gorgeous and you can wear your hair however you like. Give a few trials done and see what you like. If you love the dress don't settle for anything less. This is your big day and you should have the dress that you love the most.

And all the tulle does not look bad. It's looks like a real princess dress.

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Mar 11, 2009 10:10 AM

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I love the dress! It looks great on you.

But I would maybe add straps it is a little boobish (they look great tho btw! )

You def can get something to cover up for the church. Your wedding is in ocotber? Then a cover up might be needed anyway.

I def would wear your hair how you want!

Its2Snappy Posted: Mar 11, 2009 10:37 AM

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The dress is BEAUTIFUL! Go for it Barbs! You look HOT! And forget what the girls said. You can DEFINITELY where your hair down.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 11, 2009 10:49 AM

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thanks for all the feedback!!

i AM adding removable straps.. and im getting a piece of cloth pinned for the ceremony.. they did it for me in the store..and they are making the dress a lil higher so its not such a deep cut on the boobs. my mom asked me if i got implants..AGAIN for the 8th time .(she asks every few months..) and yesterday was the 1s ttime she saw me in my underwear and bra in her life.. im very shy lol)

JenBill61210 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 10:49 AM

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i love it, i wouldn't worry... wear the hair the way you want!

grrulz Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:07 AM

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that dress fits you perfect! i think if you leave your hair down and add some volume with like curls or something it will look amazing!! congrats! beautiful pick

little j Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:11 AM

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CONGRATS!! THat dress is really pretty! you are going to be a gorgeous bride! WOW, you lucked out finding THE ONE so quick!! throw some of your luck to me, please?

Yankees2323 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:14 AM

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LOVEEEEE ur Dress Barb!!!

Yankees2323 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:15 AM

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and wear ur hair whatever way you want its YOUR wedding!!!

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:15 AM

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Barbs!!! I love the dress girl!!!

About your hair, wear it however you want to. If you love the dress, get the dress!!!

emc282rjm Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:23 AM

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That dress looks great on you! I think it could look very pretty with hair down...go for it!

agapiiiii Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:32 AM

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Its a beautiful dress, which is far from hoochieee. Im not a big fan of alot of tulle but its beautiful, I love the top of it.

MannysBunny Posted: Mar 11, 2009 11:52 AM

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i have a demetrios dress (pics in album) it has so much tulle but i love the tulle look that's the style i knew i wanted.

Alexandra17 Posted: Mar 11, 2009 12:40 PM

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Posted by tHEBRide2010

The dress is very pretty but I am not the biggest fan of an all toulle skirt (it is a little sweet 16ish for me... please don't hate me). As far as all the boobage, you can get a bolero to wear in church if you want. I would keep looking at other options that have the same idea with less cleavage.. if all else fails then this is meant to be yours!

ita..it is a bit much