regret choosing someone as your bridesmaid? I do...one person...I mean whats done its done but I do kick myself in the a$$ for it...
MrsR72806
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I regreted asking who i thought was my BF to be my MOH...I had to fire her! Lets just say i found out she wan't my BF after all!
Thankfully my other friend who was a BM took over the role of MOH and i could not be happier
hsacks23r
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ME ME I DO I have a whole piost about this girl let me see if I can find it
hsacks23r
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Does any one regret asking one of there girls to be there BM?? I asked an old HS friend and when I asked her I said to her I know that we have drifted apart after the last few years and I hope that by you being one of my BM that will bring us closer together. Well no I am totally regretting asking her at all, and this has been in my mind of a few months. I found out after my shower of course that she did not help at all, questioning all that was being done and complaining that she did not have any money to contribute. After hearing this I felt so bad for the 2 girls that worked so hard on the party. Then I asked that all the girls pick up there dress this weekend. She was the only one that had a problem,,,,,,. It was my daughters b-day so every one was coming over..she storms in the house “WHY didn’t you answerer the phone??” I have a bout 20 people in the house I can not hear the phone if it rang WHY DIDN’T you tell me I needed to bring cash _regardless that she had NOTHING ON HER NO $$ NO CC NOTHING and she is yelling at me. SO FH took $$ out and took her to get the dress…she said how will I pay you back HELOOO A CK In the mail would do or the next time we see each other you have the $$$. .so many other things makes me feel that she doesn’t want to be apart of it all , but yet I feel bad that is isn’t but she is doing it to her self
hsacks23r
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And to top it off her Boyfriend for the past 3 years that I have never even meet is not coming to the wedding because they are going away on vacation 3 weeks before (yet they have no $$) and he can not take another sat off form work, yet they knew about the weeding for over a year and she is in the bridal party HOW RUDE
Chelle
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Yes.
nov06
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No and I appreciate them all the more when I read posts like this. I feel so bad that your wedding has to be more stressful because of a BM, when they should really be helping you de-stress.
MrsR72806
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Yeah I have def learned who my REAL friends are through this whole process!
Everything was going sooo smoothly i new i was bound from some kind of drama.
milerose
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I dont regret anyone I just wish i kept is a little bit smaller but I love all my girls so it is what it is.
M&S Sept12006
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No and I appreciate them all the more when I read posts like this. I feel so bad that your wedding has to be more stressful because of a BM, when they should really be helping you de-stress.
Its not a matter of them stressing me out, its just that you see their REAL personality!
SIBride06
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Me! I asked her to step down.. I wrote her a nice long e-mail. She understood & the feelings were mutual!!!
MissyB
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No, I am just pissed at my cousin who lives in Miami, since I got engaged she called me once. Obviously, she couldn't attend my bridal shower but no call, no card nothing. She is so selfish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gina674
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I do.... It's so disappointing...
JanuaryBride06
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I did. If I could change one thing about my wedding, I absolutely would have kicked her a$$ out.
july06bride
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I do... She just doesnt have the time for it...doesnt seem to care at all, mever asks how things are going, never offers to help, doesnt retutrn my MOHs calls or emails...it is very disappointing...she doesnt even know I am hurt by it...but its so close to the wedding I dont feel like rustling any feathers
Aphrodite07
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O my god I asked some one and they are being just awful. They dont care about my wedding all they care is about themselves and their life, I wish I didnt ask them. GOD! We used to be really close and now its awkward to even call her!
DandS
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I was told by many people to be very careful who we picked to be in our BP because people change and you see there true colors, so FH & I decided to keep it to just family. We have 6 guys and 6 girls, and all family, and so far everything has been nothing but a pleasure from everyone! In a way I am happy because I know for a fact that if I had one of my bf in the wedding party, her and my sister (MOH) would have had disagreements about a lot of things, and personally I like my sisters taste a lot better, so I am very happy with how everything is going so far.
