do you ever..

jackieee Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:03 AM

do you ever..

do you ever look through your fiance's phone? I trust him completely, but sometimes I'll peek. I don't know why. I think I'm just noisy hahah I know it's wrong, and he got really mad at me for doing it because we talked about it invading privacy. I know he's right. I dont even know why I do it. I rarely do. ughhh i hate fighting with him.

Just curious if anyone does this, or if I'm a werido.

cleokizzy Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:08 AM

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i do! and it annoys him a lot (even had a major fight about it)... so what i do is... i make sure NOT to be caught. ^_^

MrsC2010 Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:08 AM

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i do it sometimes

its not even that i think im going to find anything bad. I trust him...I am just nosy and if I get bored sometimes Ill just look at it. I know its bad. He knows I do it though lol

jackieee Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:10 AM

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Posted by MrsC2010

i do it sometimes

its not even that i think im going to find anything bad. I trust him...I am just nosy and if I get bored sometimes Ill just look at it. I know its bad. He knows I do it though lol

That is actually me!

halfbaked Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:10 AM

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Eh, not really- I poked around once because I was curious to see how often he texts, but they were all really boring. Also sometimes if it rings and I'm closer to it. I look and say 'Oh it's your mom.' and hand it to him. I don't need to do that, but just like you, I'm nosey.

AngnShaun Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:11 AM

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i have done it in the past... because i wanted to check if he was still gambling... i havent done it in years though

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:11 AM

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Nope...never for a snooping purpose.

JBC12510 Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:13 AM

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Ive never done it. One of my best friends has and it got her and her relationship into a lot of trouble.

CaseyNTim Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:13 AM

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Posted by MrsC2010

i do it sometimes

its not even that i think im going to find anything bad. I trust him...I am just nosy and if I get bored sometimes Ill just look at it. I know its bad. He knows I do it though lol

I do the same thing...

MR1223 Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:13 AM

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no, i never looked through it. but if it rings when we're home together, i'll ask him who it is just cause im nosy, but not cause i dont trust him lol.

StaceyWill Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:14 AM

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Nah I don’t look through it, but if he’s not by his phone or sleeping and I hear it ring or hear that he got a text, I’ll look at it.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:14 AM

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I never do that .. I was in a VERY VERY bad relationship before I met FH and now I have learned that FH is the only person that I have ever trusted wholeheartedly .. never even crossed my mind.

Iluvpoodles Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:15 AM

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Yup and he does to me too lol. Just nosey..

MerSaysEh Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:16 AM

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Posted by CaseyNTim

Posted by MrsC2010

i do it sometimes

its not even that i think im going to find anything bad. I trust him...I am just nosy and if I get bored sometimes Ill just look at it. I know its bad. He knows I do it though lol

I do the same thing...

totalllly

and once when we had only been dating a few months I saw texts from a girl he had dated before that were kinda flirty, but he had ended the convo with 'my gf wouldn't like this...' but I was a bit upset and wanted to ask him about it but couldn't because I snooped!

meganbrandon Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:18 AM

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Posted by jackieee

Posted by MrsC2010

i do it sometimes

its not even that i think im going to find anything bad. I trust him...I am just nosy and if I get bored sometimes Ill just look at it. I know its bad. He knows I do it though lol

That is actually me!

me too... I really have only done it maybe 5 times or something but not b/c i think hes doing anything he shouldnt be but just because i'm nosy too!

Future Mrs H Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:18 AM

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Nope- never!

canmigs Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:18 AM

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

I never do that .. I was in a VERY VERY bad relationship before I met FH and now I have learned that FH is the only person that I have ever trusted wholeheartedly .. never even crossed my mind.

I had a very similar situation. When we first got together I completely didn't trust men at all...so YES I was awful, but he understood why. Over the years I snooped less and less, now I never do.

Sandradv121 Posted: Apr 23, 2010 11:22 AM

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Fh and i really don't hide much from each other. I mean hell i leave my phone with him, esp when I don't wanna be bother and he leaves it with me to run the business. No secrets here. I mean for crying out loud there is nothing private left in our relationship lol. Its all out in the open.

Thats why its so hard for him to plan surprises and the same for me. We have each others passwords and we know where each other hides things. Christmas, birthdays and even the engagement involve careful planning and hiding.