Do you ever feel - - -

Original post by Sunflower08

Jul 19, 2007 07:54 PM

That with all the early planning you do........not everything is going to go as planned. I have been thinking about it more and more lately. Even having nightmares about the big day

TommysWife08 Posted: Jul 19, 2007 09:27 PM

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

I don't feel that way yet... I don't know if I will...

as long as there's good music, good food, and good booze - that's a GOOD party.

this is what EVERYONE always tells me!! as long as these three things happen, its a good wedding lol

but i freak out now and then too!!!!

Mici n KC Posted: Jul 19, 2007 11:22 PM

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I feel like if I book everything now I won't have anything to do later!

bella1028 Posted: Jul 19, 2007 11:25 PM

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I absolutely feel like this...like no matter how much planning you do, something will be forgotten or not done on time...scary feeling

Mrs. V 2008 Posted: Jul 19, 2007 11:27 PM

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I do all the time!

bella1028 Posted: Jul 19, 2007 11:27 PM

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SUNFLOWER08...we are date twins

ElizA608 Posted: Jul 19, 2007 11:33 PM

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how could you not worry about things going wrong...planning takes so much time and energy-- all we want is for everything to go PERFECT....IF anything goes wrong at my wedding.. im just going to try to make the best of it... i'll prob have a DOC so i wont have to deal w/ anything!

drpepper318 Posted: Jul 20, 2007 01:01 AM

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Yeah I've been feeling that way lately, thinking things will go wrong, from the weather, to someone (probably me) messing something up, to having tons of no-shows (which I anticipate).
I'm trying to accept that there will be things here and there that don't happen exactly as I hoped, but there's nothing we can do about that! We can't control every little thing so we just have to go with the flow & focus more on enjoying the day than anything else!!! I'm actually looking forward to seeing how the day unfolds, what interesting things will happen. Your day only happens once and goes by so fast, it would be a shame to spend it feeling anxious!!!!