Do you ever go above and beyond.....

StayandJohn Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:18 PM

Do you ever go above and beyond.....

for your 'friends'? And then realize that when its your turn they are no wear to be found????

Just a mini vent sorry.

I'm seriously considering cutting some friends reallllly soon

jennbaby Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:19 PM

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Oh YEA!

You always find out your true friends around wedding time or other important times in your life!

StayandJohn Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:20 PM

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Jenn, I cant believe it, I'm totally freakin gonna kill someone....absolutely amazing!

Lisa Rose Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:21 PM

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All the time...that is why I find myself seperating from my friends. Im tired of doing all the time and not being done for!!

Misty Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:24 PM

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Yes, I had this experience with a friend and my wedding. She decided to bail on my wedding (after coming to my shower) in favor of her boyfriend of 3 months cousins wedding.

True colors....

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:25 PM

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yes! but others do not others do the same for me!

swags1016 Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:27 PM

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Stacey

I just had a HUGE fight with my Best friend and cousin over this!!!

So the answer, YUP!

Frankie yells at me all the time for it!!!!

StayandJohn Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:28 PM

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I'm totally depressed over this whole thing, really took me by surprise

Misty Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:29 PM

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I'm sorry sweety.

eroxgirl Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:30 PM

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YES! This happens all the time...it makes me question sometimes WHY I bother with some people. But there are very few people left that I bend over backwards for anymore. I learn quickly!

curly2003 Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:32 PM

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YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Scoop Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:34 PM

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Always and I have put a stop to it.

jennbaby Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:35 PM

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Stay what happend? FM me if you want

Shamee Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:35 PM

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My mother and I do it all the time and yet these takers are still in our lives.

MrsTC Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:35 PM

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Yes! I just posted a similiar thing today....and i know it hurts to move on but sometimes it is for the best.

shamma Posted: Jun 20, 2003 02:44 PM

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What's new?? just don't let them change you as a person. Now you know tho' If you are a giving person, don't let b/c they didn't do something for you, that you would have done for them. Don't let it change you. Life is a constant lesson. Take it for what it is a lesson.