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Do you feel the pressure...

Original post by MrsDtoBe09

to have a really original memorable wedding? I feel like all I do is look for fun original touches and different things for my wedding that no one has seen before. I don't know if it has something to do with everyone's reaction when they hear I'm getting married on a holiday (or a holiday to me ) but I feel almost stressed! Isn't that silly? I know the day is all about fh and myself but a small part of me keeps thinking it's got to be fun, it's got to be different, it's got to be something people will remember forever!
flairforfashion Posted:

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Honestly, at one point I was driving myself insane because of this site and Platinum Weddings. I was all about have tiny details and all that fun stuff. Then I said to myself who cares? No need to go overboard- this stuff is costing my Parents enough. There are things I have to have and I am not into being too original. I just want the classic black and white wedding. The thing with the green was driving me up the wall so I nixed it. I am just having fun with the cake topper, card box, favors, and small details but not letting it drive me insane. I just want to have a wedding day that is fun and memorable but it doesn't have to have crazy stuff to make it that way.

CNC4eva3402 Posted:

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Posted by VickiR510

Dont stress yourself over that stuff.




So are you saying I shouldn't buy 15 different dog Halloween costumes so I can take a picture of Jeter in a different costume for each table number? It's a sickness, really... this is a comtemplation of mine!



Can I just say that I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE this idea!!!! Is there a way of photoshopping diff costumes to save some money?? lolz
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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all the freaking time. i want ppl to remember my wedding and look back and be like that freaking rocked!

MirabellaNYC Posted:

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no...we are just doing everything that we always wanted, doing it our way, and not so worried about making it 'original'. Everyone invited to our wedding is so special to us, it will be memorable for all, but most importantly, FH and I.

Mrs B to Be Posted:

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i'm trying to be different and original from my friends weddings......i dont personally know any of you beyond our chats so i have no problem with sharing or using each others ideas.......but i do this as a side job with a wedding planner so i feel like i HAVE to do all the little details b/c its expected of me

thankfully, i refuse to spend crazy amounts of money on the little things, i've been very good at sticking to my budget

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