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do you & FI live together?

Original post by btrflygrl

FI and I do NOT....he doesn't believe in it....for those that did/aren't living together...how did you handle the whole moving in process? Timing before or after wedding?

franksbride Posted:

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yes, fi and i have been living together for about 1 1/2 years.

allure Posted:

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Yes we do
MarciaD Posted:

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Yes, we bought a house together 2 years ago, bound by mortgage since then-- and will be bound by marriage this Nov.
AtticaQT Posted:

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We dont live together - we live about 15-20 minutes away from each other

nehaliasz Posted:

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yes, two years tomorrow!! .

Jess2 Posted:

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We've been together almost 4 years & we just moved in together into a new apartment for the 2 of us 2 months ago. I had my own studio in NYC for pretty much the whole 4 years (we met right after I moved in) & he lived with his folks. So far so good! We'll be getting married in May. I keep wondering why we didn't do it sooner!

Irishbride Posted:

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Fh and I had lived together for 2 1/2 years. Wow time flies. The house I was living in was getting sold so he asked me to move in with him. Def one of the best moves I made.

jannshari Posted:

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We moved in together on our 6 month anniversary over 3 years ago and we just moved to a bigger place at the end of May. It certainly put our relationship to the test, and we wound up in counseling for over a year, but I'd much rather have gotten most of that over with before we get married to know whether it's surmountable than after we get married and wonder if I made a huge mistake. I do sometimes wish we weren't getting married having known each other's habits so well and having nothing really new to look forward to immediately after the wedding, because I imagine that life will pretty much return to how it's been after the big day, but I'm so glad I found out whether I can live with him before we decided to get married!

kelly6273 Posted:

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We lived together for a year before we got married. We were engaged at the time.
Olgaki Posted:

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Nopes he lives with his mommy and daddy and I live with mine And it's just the way we like it
firegal Posted:

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Yup - Living in sin for about 3 1/2 years now (and loving it )
Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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I would NEVER marry anyone if we didnt' live together first!

MrsTC Posted:

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As soon as we got engaged, we moved in together. My parents flipped but have accepted it now! And it takes adjusting - realizing you CAN go watch SATC in another room while he watches Steven Seagal, lol. You don't have to be together all the time. That was my experience.
Sage10.03 Posted:

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We dated for 2 years, then moved in for 3 years and are getting married in 5 week!!

I am SOOOO glad that we loved together first b/c those first few months were rough and I would have hated to have been newleyweds bickering about all the crap we did....
But that's just me....I am anal about stuff...hehe!
Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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We moved intogether after 6mts and I don;t think you really love or know anyone till you life together!

acp1101 Posted:

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Nope!

I'm old fashioned.

But I am there like 6 out of 7 days a week anyway!
CatchI22 Posted:

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We lived together for 1 1/2 years before we got married... got engaged first... personally i couldn't marry someone without knowing how it was ot live with them. Our families sorta flipped bc we come from catholic families, but they got used to it.

Misty Posted:

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We were old fashioned. We moved out together. It's been the easiest transition ever.

yabbobay Posted:

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just to comment on the 'old fashioned' thing...years ago...people were engaged for only 1-3 months...nowadays we need to wait, to plan, to book, to pay....

in victorian times it was perfectly acceptable to have sex when engaged (since there was no waiting...the baby would be born after the marriage)

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