I had dinner with one of my friends last night (who I was planning on asking to be one of my bm's) and I never bring up my wedding to her because she never has any pleasant comments and I didnt bring it up last night, but out of nowhere she told me her and our other friend are so sick of my wedding because my moh doesnt stop talking about it. I was really hurt by this, Ive only been engaged for 3 months, rarely see or talk to her to even bring it up and she never asks me how the planning is going or anything, barely got a congratulations when FH proposed, and she said that to me. Am I over reacting? I cant get it off my mind
meli722
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i dont think youre overreacting at all!!! i would be very mad and offended if she said something like that
AugustBridein09
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I think it was very RUDE......Please tell me you are not going to ask this girl to still be in your bridal party?
sugarkube4
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Jealousy rears its ugly head... she doesn't sound like a very good friend and if she wasn't happy for you when you got engaged.. do you really want to see her in your wedding pictures 15 years from now???
Danyell48
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Posted by sugarkube4
Jealousy rears its ugly head... she doesn't sound like a very good friend and if she wasn't happy for you when you got engaged.. do you really want to see her in your wedding pictures 15 years from now???
I definitely agree!
if she doesn't want to hear about your wedding how is she going to be in your wedding. Kinda impossible to help you with stuff if you can't say anything wedding related
jgl
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i dont think you are over reacting at all
im just wondering why you were even considering asking her to be a BM in the first place - she doesnt seem like a very nice person/friend
DeeSteve09
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Hmm.. haha I wonder if your friends are my friends? I have the SAME situation going on as well. My two girl friends from highschool pretty much did not even care that I got engaged. I saw them the other day and they didnt even ask to see my ring. Some other stuff happened as well and my FH is flipping.. so now I'm NOT asking them to be in my bridal party. My bridal party may be smaller now but I'm sure it will be less of a headache!
You should do what you feel is right! This is your day and I'm sure you want your bridal party to be filled with people that care about you and are excited for you and your FH. GOOD LUCK!
