*taking deep breaths to calm down* Ok. As some of you know, i am new here and i was about to book VIP for both my ceremony and reception. A couple of days ago, my FH said he is fine with either the Fountainhead or VIP. So I made up my mind yesterday afternoon and told him last night that I am making a deposit on VIP. Now why in the hell does my FH calls me up at my job and about two hours before I leave the office to ask me why not Fountainhead? I think we should go with Fountainhead. He and I both know that Fountainhead is asking for more money per person and more people (we have 75 people but say 70 will come). Now i know why he wants Fountainhead and its because they have a damn skylight Chapel room. Now in all reasoning, we are only going to have a ceremony for 30 minutes, so why determine the facility on a chapel room that is only going to be used for 30 minutes out of 6 hours??. . I known this man for 17 years and ever since we got engaged last October, he had made it pretty hard for us to decide on a damn place. Always changing his damn mind on either the location or because of the costs of the wedding. I am sick of this ish.
Sorry but I had to vent because i know I am going to go off on him big time when i see him. He had to get off the phone a few minutes ago to take care of something. I remained calm on the phone but I am slowly losing my temper. He knows that we have such a short time frame between now and the summer. Why in the hell is he so indecisive???
Sorry for the long vent. Any other indecisive men, or is it just mine?
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Re: Do you have an indecisive FH?? Vent thread
Yeah, you are right! I checked out a couple of places in Long island already but they don't have our dates available. Westbury manor doesn't allow afternoon ceremonies, they only allow morning ceremonies. The only ones that were left is Fountainhead and Sinapi Ceola Manor and both were coming a little strong on their prices. So I don't know. Maybe I should create a poll or somethin for Fountainhead and Sinap Ceola Manor.
However, I am really happy that i found this forum. You and everyone been a great help.
