I'd have to vote #4, depending on what the issue is.
Jen_n_Dale
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Let's say I don't forget...
divabride
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Usually number two, but it really depends on the situation.
Donna&Joe708
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Yes, unfortunately, I do. It is very difficult for me to let go of my anger if I feel someone has wronged me...especially if they make no effort to make amends. FH teases me that I remember every little detail of any fight we've ever had!
wood2be
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It depends on the situation. I am very protective of my friends and family and if someone does something that hurts one of them, they are on my sh*t list forever!
BlondeJD
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Oh yes, 100% I'm a grudge-holder. I never *really* forgive either. I'll act normal toward the person but it's definitely always in the back of my mind. Depending on what it is, I also plot revenge as well.
Jax430
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I pretty much forgive and forget, unless the person is a repeat offender. After awhile, I just drop a friendship that consistently requires me to be forgiving in order for it to be maintained.