Are you having one, after watching zillas & afraid I'll turn in to one we decided it's worth researching & most prolly having. What about you?
Espo22
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I will definitely look into it
Snowflake08
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im not and i will explain they are not wedding planners - only there for that day and do most of what a bridal attendant does if your RH has one I dont need anyone to tip my vendors for me - i will set up my envelopes and my parents will handle that - Bridal Attendants do a lot - unless i am misinformed, im not sure what else the DOC does
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im not and i will explain they are not wedding planners - only there for that day and do most of what a bridal attendant does if your RH has one I dont need anyone to tip my vendors for me - i will set up my envelopes and my parents will handle that - Bridal Attendants do a lot - unless i am misinformed, im not sure what else the DOC does
It depends on the RH, yeah alot of them are supposed to do most of that but sometimes it doesn't end up like that. They also help set up your centerpieces and decorations, make sure the ceremony is running smoothly, same with the reception and so on. It depends. Also, unfortunately most weddings theres a problem and they would handle it so this way on your day you don't know about the problem and they fix it for you.
Just like my rh has a wedding planner there, and from what i hear it is not the biggest help. When people have gone to her to ask about invitations and stuff she kinda pushes the invitations she wants you to buy and so on.
Snowflake08
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i gotcha - well, im not sure how much they cost but i wasnt planning on having one
SoontobeMrsH
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my hall has a matri'd sp? who i think is there for my guest. they don't provide a bridal attendent.. I think their job is to help ensure everything is running smoothly.... I requested info on VHB, in addition to price I asked what services were included,
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i gotcha - well, im not sure how much they cost but i wasnt planning on having one
yeah not everyone has them obviously so its more about your preference. Hmmm I've seen different prices...Ive seen some of them for $750, others for $1000 or $1200
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my hall has a matri'd sp? who i think is there for my guest. they don't provide a bridal attendent.. I think their job is to help ensure everything is running smoothly.... I requested info on VHB, in addition to price I asked what services were included,
yeah thats why i am not sure what i will do. We also have a matri'd. I was also thinking about the ceremony though. I don't know i have plenty of time to figure this out.
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I don't plan on having one, but that mught change later when i get closer to the day. for now I feel like i have everything under control. ( i only booked my RH )
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It depends on the size of your wedding and what you can budget for. I would def. check out what services the hall includes. I get a planner complimentary from my hall and I can ask questions through out the planning process. I will probably use their DOC services. I'd really have to think about this if it wasn't included.
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i gotcha - well, im not sure how much they cost but i wasnt planning on having one
yeah not everyone has them obviously so its more about your preference. Hmmm I've seen different prices...Ive seen some of them for $750, others for $1000 or $1200
msybe different levels of service?
SoontobeMrsH
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my hall has a matri'd sp? who i think is there for my guest. they don't provide a bridal attendent.. I think their job is to help ensure everything is running smoothly.... I requested info on VHB, in addition to price I asked what services were included,
yeah thats why i am not sure what i will do. We also have a matri'd. I was also thinking about the ceremony though. I don't know i have plenty of time to figure this out.
Since we have one of the most popular dates of 08 (which we love!! & I adore all my twins ) I'm scared that once we decide we want somthing when we go to book, it'll be slim pickens...
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Posted by beeinsilly
i gotcha - well, im not sure how much they cost but i wasnt planning on having one
yeah not everyone has them obviously so its more about your preference. Hmmm I've seen different prices...Ive seen some of them for $750, others for $1000 or $1200
msybe different levels of service?
It was basically the same. I guess it depends on how popular the person is and how booked they get, when this happens they think they can charge more.
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Posted by beeinsilly
i gotcha - well, im not sure how much they cost but i wasnt planning on having one
yeah not everyone has them obviously so its more about your preference. Hmmm I've seen different prices...Ive seen some of them for $750, others for $1000 or $1200
msybe different levels of service?
It was basically the same. I guess it depends on how popular the person is and how booked they get, when this happens they think they can charge more.
oh
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my hall has a matri'd sp? who i think is there for my guest. they don't provide a bridal attendent.. I think their job is to help ensure everything is running smoothly.... I requested info on VHB, in addition to price I asked what services were included,
yeah thats why i am not sure what i will do. We also have a matri'd. I was also thinking about the ceremony though. I don't know i have plenty of time to figure this out.
Since we have one of the most popular dates of 08 (which we love!! & I adore all my twins ) I'm scared that once we decide we want somthing when we go to book, it'll be slim pickens...
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Maybe not, this is something alot of girls wont realize they might want until a few months before. Definitely not one of the things most brides book soon
SoontobeMrsH
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my hall has a matri'd sp? who i think is there for my guest. they don't provide a bridal attendent.. I think their job is to help ensure everything is running smoothly.... I requested info on VHB, in addition to price I asked what services were included,
yeah thats why i am not sure what i will do. We also have a matri'd. I was also thinking about the ceremony though. I don't know i have plenty of time to figure this out.
Since we have one of the most popular dates of 08 (which we love!! & I adore all my twins ) I'm scared that once we decide we want somthing when we go to book, it'll be slim pickens...
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Maybe not, this is something alot of girls wont realize they might want until a few months before. Definitely not one of the things most brides book soon
hmmn, good point, guess I'm just egar to spend more$$ oh wait I mean book, ugh
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my hall has a matri'd sp? who i think is there for my guest. they don't provide a bridal attendent.. I think their job is to help ensure everything is running smoothly.... I requested info on VHB, in addition to price I asked what services were included,
yeah thats why i am not sure what i will do. We also have a matri'd. I was also thinking about the ceremony though. I don't know i have plenty of time to figure this out.
Since we have one of the most popular dates of 08 (which we love!! & I adore all my twins ) I'm scared that once we decide we want somthing when we go to book, it'll be slim pickens...
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Maybe not, this is something alot of girls wont realize they might want until a few months before. Definitely not one of the things most brides book soon
hmmn, good point, guess I'm just egar to spend more$$ oh wait I mean book, ugh
yeah i know lol...on bhb alot of girls talked about this. Someone asked if it was worth it and many girls who had one responded...many of them also recommended people and gave prices
SoontobeMrsH
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thanks for the tip, I'm gonna try a search
Espo22
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thanks for the tip, I'm gonna try a search
You're welcome...yeah it was pretty recently too
SoontobeMrsH
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thanks found the thread, & what you posted is why we're deciding to have one