Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

Everything I mention gets shot down and stomped on. I like seperates for my BP when I got engaged I mentioned this. My mom hated it. We went today and looked at a DJ who offered a percussionist FH hated it. Mom said she thought the percussionist would take away from me. FH wants a separate Limo for us. I want to go with the BP.I like the Trolley for the wedding party FH hated it.I think we have come to the decission of maybe having navigator or escalade! I made Save the Date magnets. I have been asking my mom to call Hotels in the area for prices for like 4 months Nothing....I ask her to do one thing and she cant I work 2 jobs. I take it upon myself to do it. I give her the prices (all of which are 2 expensive for her taste) and still as of 2night she hasnt made a decisson on which ones to book. I want to mail out my STD magnets since now its even to late to mil them. I put alot of work into making I dont want them to go to waste. I went out tonight and FH and I had a disagreement on what paper we should use to send the save the date info on.... I stopped and Laughed and said I feel like Bridezilla. I know its my day but its also FH day 2 and since my parents are paying the have the final say.

Re: Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

Do what YOU want, it's YOUR day!
We all go through this in some way but in the end, all this is worth it and it will all come together, I promise

Re: Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

Ok, now breathe and just relax. Do one thing at a time...I think you're worrying about too much at once...

This may make the planning and disagreements to follow a little easier on you.

Good Luck!

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Sometimes you just need to take a moment realize that it is your day and FH. Take a deep breath and explain politely what you want and envision for your wedding day. Maybe your mom will understand that shes not wearing the BM dresses and that this is what you want.
Good luck I'm sure it will all work out. Like Franksbride said

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Do one thing at a time...I think you're worrying about too much at once...

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Re: Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

thanks guys im hysterical crying. U are right i need to breathe AND RELAX.

Re: Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

OH NO...don't cry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It is all going to be ok!!!

Re: Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??

Just remember to take a step back and look at what your'e crying about. It won't seem like such a big deal. We have ALL been there- I have cried about things that people would think are ridiculous but planning is very stressful. It will get better- just take one thing each step at a time!!!!

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a better question could be...
how many times a day do i think that!!!!!!!

Re: Does anyone else feel like throwing in the towel and letting everyone else plan the wedding!??