Does Anyone Else Find This Disturbing???

I just clicked on the Wedding Songs link under Planning because FH STILL hasn't picked out a song to dance with his mom to and we meet the dj in three days.

Anyway, in the Mother/Son Dance list was the song Always by Atlantic Starr. The lyrics are below. Would it skeeve anyone else out if their FH/DH danced with his mom to this song????

Girl you are to me, all that a woman should be,
And I dedicate my life to you always
The love like yours is grand,
It must have been sent from up above
And I know you'll stay this way, for always

And we both know, that our love will grow
And forever it will be you and me
Ooh your life is sun,
Chasing all the rain away,
When you come around you bring a brighter day
You're the perfect one
For me and you forever we'll be
And I will love you so for always

Came with me my sweet,
Let's go make a family,
And they will bring us joy, for always

Oh boy I love your soul,
I can't find enough ways to let you know
But you can be sure of course, for always

And we both know, that our love will grow
And forever it will be you and me
Ooh your life is sun,
Chasing all the rain away,
When you come around you bring a brighter day
You're the perfect one
For me and you forever we'll be
And I will love you so for always

Ooh your life is sun,
Chasing all the rain away,
When you come around you bring a brighter day
You're the perfect one
For me and you forever we'll be
And I will love you so for always

I will love you so, for always

That's bizarre

Came with me my sweet,
Let's go make a family,
And they will bring us joy, for always


HELLO?!!! I definitely do not think that is appropriate

If I saw a mother and son dancing to that, I would be taken back... a little strange if you ask me :)

That DEFINTELY doesn't belong there.

FBIL chose 'what a wonderful world'
I've seen 'forever young' used often too

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Posted by JessicaM.

that's does seem kind of....different. more passion-love than mother/son love.

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I always thought that was a wedding song long before coming here. If I saw a groom dancing to that song with his mom, Id tell the bride to get the scissors and cut the apron strings!!!

i would be embarressed and second guessing my FI and FMIL's relationship

I'm considering that song for OUR song.

ya know, maybe he's just clueless about the lyrics and doesn't realize... and SHE likes the song... Whatever, I'd X it from the list though if I were you!

I just went back - there are others!!!

You're the Inspiration?!?!?! 'You're the meaning in my life, you're the inspiration.' I'd DIE if FH danced to that, or even picked it out as an option!!!

I Do (Cherish You) is on there too -

When you smile I can feel all my passion unfolding

Your hand brushes mine
And a thousand sensations seduce me

How you opened my life to a new paradise


Hey Ron, I think you need to revamp your list

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Posted by 12-3Princess

I'm considering that song for OUR song.

ya know, maybe he's just clueless about the lyrics and doesn't realize... and SHE likes the song... Whatever, I'd X it from the list though if I were you!

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Oh God, NO!!! Brett doesn't want it, this is on the LIW song suggestion list for Mother/Son Dances.

OMG that would be grounds for calling off the wedding, I'm not joking!

http://www.liweddings.com/planning/wedding_songs/?Display=MotherDance

It reminds me of how many people choose Green Day's 'Time of Your Life' to end their wedding, when if you look at the lyrics, it is a break-up song.

'It's something unpredicatble, but in the end its right... I hope you had the time of your life'

See, to me that means 'Hey it [the relationship] was good while it lasted, but even good things end.' I always felt it was a break-up song.

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Posted by Goldi1021
'It's something unpredicatble, but in the end its right... I hope you had the time of your life'

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Hmmm.... I can see your point but it refers to 'it' in the present tense twice. But it's contradictory because then it's past tense with the Had. I can see why people would use that as a last dance song though. At least it wouldn't mean you're hanging out in the Ozarks like these songs

there are a few songs there that I don't think are really appropriate...but i guess there aren't that many songs out there.

My FMIL loves classical music- if I'm lucky, they'll pick an instrumental!

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Posted by eogara

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Posted by Goldi1021
'It's something unpredicatble, but in the end its right... I hope you had the time of your life'

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Hmmm.... I can see your point but it refers to 'it' in the present tense twice. But it's contradictory because then it's past tense with the Had. I can see why people would use that as a last dance song though. At least it wouldn't mean you're hanging out in the Ozarks like these songs

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I love that song, and want to use it for the recessional. Fh thinks it's a break up song too, and doesn't want to use it. I told him to pretend the line says 'Its something unpredictable, but in the end its right. I hope you HAVE the time of your life.'

That is bizarre seeing as how that was my dad and step-moms wedding song!