like is he really the right one? are you too young to get married? does some things he does annoy the crap out of you?
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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yea right about now... i wanna beat the crap outta him
but normally, no lol
RitasEngaged
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I do occasionally
Yankees2323
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i do.,.. and lately alot n i dunno why
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i do.,.. and lately alot n i dunno why
That is so funny - me too!!!
Yankees2323
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... its not funny Rita lol its a bad thing lol
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... its not funny Rita lol its a bad thing lol
No I know it is not funny it is just funny that we are having the same thoughts.
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no second thoughts on him being the one, that part i'm pretty certain on...but in my head, i definitely have a lot of those, 'holy $hit, i'm gonna be married by the time i'm 27?! that's crazy' kind of moments...
oh yeah, and we def still both have our really irritating traits that annoy the heck out of one another...not sure if those ever go away so much as you just learn to deal with them better
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... its not funny Rita lol its a bad thing lol
No I know it is not funny it is just funny that we are having the same thoughts.
lol yea i know....
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no second thoughts on him being the one, that part i'm pretty certain on...but in my head, i definitely have a lot of those, 'holy $hit, i'm gonna be married by the time i'm 27?! that's crazy' kind of moments...
oh yeah, and we def still both have our really irritating traits that annoy the heck out of one another...not sure if those ever go away so much as you just learn to deal with them better
i have a few of those i cant stand about him but he swears he doesnt feel that way about me
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I never have second thoughts about marrying FH, I have second thoughts about spending so much $$$ on one day....but I guess we're in too deep now, I'm just gonna enjoy it -- at least we'll have beautiful memories of our wedding
Espo22
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when taking such a huge step everyone questions things.
I didnt wonder though if i was too young since im not hahaha
ace730
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Yes he does things that annoy the crap out of me, but to be honest, I have never really had second thoughts. It's just the most logical (and romantic!) next step in our relationship.
That being said, I do think that having second thoughs before one of the biggest events of your life is natural.
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I never really had second thoughts about my fh. he definitely drives me crazy sometimes but i never had any 2nd thoughts about him being the one for me.
I'm going to be 23 when I get married so even though I'm going to be very young when i marry my fh, I'm soooo excited to start my new life I never thought of it as being too young !!!
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I never really have 2nd thoughts, but i think it's completely norma. It shows that you are planning for this to be forever, which is a good thing. too many people don't think that way and feel that they can always end the marriage if it doesn't turn out they way they planned. It's such a great thing that you are feeling this is the rest of your life!
sure, there are things that drive me crazy about FH, but i'm sure there are things that drive him crazy too. I think you should talk to him about everything. He's prob feeling the same way too. This is a major decision for both of you.
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I'll have just turned 24 when we get married, which is the age most of my friends were on their wedding days (some were younger tho) so i definitely don't feel that it's too young.
I guess, for a little while in the beginning of our engagement, I did kind of question if it happened too FAST. I mean, yeah we've known each other 3 years, but we were only actually dating about a year before he proposed. I guess that's still a good amount of time really, but we did have a long distance relationship and only spent weeks together at a time (not counting the Summer I stayed down there with him). But I feel like the hours upon hours that we've spent on the phone every single day that we're apart kind of makes up for this. In a lot of ways I DO honestly feel that we know each other better than most couples, because 'intimacy' was never able to take priority in the beginning of our relationship. First we really truly got to know one another.
I know in my heart that he IS the one for me. I love him so much and I know that we're perfect together. So no - absolutely no second thoughts over here I'm ready to be his wife.
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Been there, done that. My first time around...YES & we were together for 12 yrs! Two weeks before the wedding I called it off. HARDEST decision & BEST decision I ever made in my life..... This time around, older & wiser...lol, NO DOUBTS at all - completely different animal all around....I wouldn't have changed a thing.
My only advise is to listen to your gut....it's usually right.
mrsjpc3
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yesssssssss.. yesssss. its a huge committment.... so its normal...
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yes..\ i think its perfectly normal to have some doubts.. this is a big decion and its life changing.. Ofcause ur going to think it over n over to make sure its the right one
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I feel the same way I doubt the wedding part all the time. I never doubt that FH is the one, I've known for a long time he was the one. Before I knew how much work I would have to put into planning a wedding and how much money it would be I really wanted a big wedding now that I am all caught up in it, I feel that it causes so much stress, and I am hoping its all worth it for 5 1/2 hours.
