Does anyone want to share FMIL horror stories????

That bad huh? Sorry to hear that...unfortunately I think you just have to grin and bear it. My brother's wife hates my parents and has let them know it very clearly over the years and has now managed to pull him away from the family..
Please just try your best and remember this is your FH's mom. Sorry JMO..Good luck

Let's just say, FMIL called us the other day and asked me if I ever watched 'Everybody Loves Raymond.' I responded, 'Yes, why?' and she says to me, 'Well, I think I'm just like Marie (the mom), don't you?'

HMMMM...do I tell her the truth?

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Posted by eunicsd006

if anyone has stories it would have to be me......but they are old....u see fh and i have been 2gether for about 10 yrs...we also have 2 kids our daughter just turned 8...just keeep in mind this happened a long time ago......if u were me would u forgive and forget....? that was my million dollar question for the past 8 years.......picture yourself at 18 with a newborn baby girl and its so new u dont know what to do ....mom is about 30 min away and u live with people ho dont like u very much (fmil's place) We were only going to stay until we found our own place ...we bought groceriees and paid some utilities on top of partial rent....mind u fh was making minimum wage....one night she barged into my room asked fo 20.00 ...that was all i had for my babys milk....she said dont worry i spoke to my son and he said it was ok.....well it wasnt he never spoke to her..now my baby was out of milk...when i said something about the baby...ffil went balistic and kicked us out in the street the said they didnt care what happened to that kid....it was about 33 degrees out and i couldnt believe at 18 i would be homeless.......fh,baby and i went to my moms house........now almost 10 years later were finally getting along and shes great but sometimes i cant let go of alot of what happened in the past .....but im still thankfull it finally wrked out.....

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Omg, I'm speechless and very sorry you had to go through that.

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Posted by eunicsd006

if anyone has stories it would have to be me......but they are old....u see fh and i have been 2gether for about 10 yrs...we also have 2 kids our daughter just turned 8...just keeep in mind this happened a long time ago......if u were me would u forgive and forget....? that was my million dollar question for the past 8 years.......picture yourself at 18 with a newborn baby girl and its so new u dont know what to do ....mom is about 30 min away and u live with people ho dont like u very much (fmil's place) We were only going to stay until we found our own place ...we bought groceriees and paid some utilities on top of partial rent....mind u fh was making minimum wage....one night she barged into my room asked fo 20.00 ...that was all i had for my babys milk....she said dont worry i spoke to my son and he said it was ok.....well it wasnt he never spoke to her..now my baby was out of milk...when i said something about the baby...ffil went balistic and kicked us out in the street the said they didnt care what happened to that kid....it was about 33 degrees out and i couldnt believe at 18 i would be homeless.......fh,baby and i went to my moms house........now almost 10 years later were finally getting along and shes great but sometimes i cant let go of alot of what happened in the past .....but im still thankfull it finally wrked out.....

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I am soo speachless... You are a better person than I am. I'm not sure I could forgive that. But I am glad everything has worked out.

its ok .....it sure did help me become a much more stronger person and yes i would say better

Before I broke up with my FH his evil mother wanted to wear white to my wedding, and attempted to justify it because my dress was ivory and hers was stark white! I was like it will be white with a HUGE red stain on it if you wear it. Well we broke up and I got rid of the B&?$@
Now she will be some other poor girls problem. I have sympathy for whoever has to deal with her.I could write a novel over all the stuff she did and said. evil woman whose own family openly hates her and she has no friends either!!

I am on everyone's side here....and some of these stories are very extreme.
However....I sometimes feel for the MIL.
I know that if I had a son, and he was getting married, YES i'd be thrilled.....but as we all know the MIL is the first one whose ideas get disregarded and thrown in the trash. I think MILs should be given more credit.
If given some involvement and we ask them for help.....they'll really appreciate it and it will come back to us ten fold.
I think that MILs are often discluded and brushed aside.....they should be made to feel more included.

Really love my FMIL and FFIL, they're great people. Now FSIL horror stories? Those I have a few of....

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Posted by Future Mrs.

I am on everyone's side here....and some of these stories are very extreme.
However....I sometimes feel for the MIL.
I know that if I had a son, and he was getting married, YES i'd be thrilled.....but as we all know the MIL is the first one whose ideas get disregarded and thrown in the trash. I think MILs should be given more credit.
If given some involvement and we ask them for help.....they'll really appreciate it and it will come back to us ten fold.
I think that MILs are often discluded and brushed aside.....they should be made to feel more included.

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I beg to differ...If they aren't paying for it - they need to be quite - There are things that they are included in - But it is really all about the bride and that is totally my opinion - But I can't stand when they think they should have a say and they haven't even offered to chip in or pay a dime ---

Can't say I have one We get along really well.

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Posted by Licee15

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Posted by Future Mrs.

I am on everyone's side here....and some of these stories are very extreme.
However....I sometimes feel for the MIL.
I know that if I had a son, and he was getting married, YES i'd be thrilled.....but as we all know the MIL is the first one whose ideas get disregarded and thrown in the trash. I think MILs should be given more credit.
If given some involvement and we ask them for help.....they'll really appreciate it and it will come back to us ten fold.
I think that MILs are often discluded and brushed aside.....they should be made to feel more included.

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I beg to differ...If they aren't paying for it - they need to be quite - There are things that they are included in - But it is really all about the bride and that is totally my opinion - But I can't stand when they think they should have a say and they haven't even offered to chip in or pay a dime ---

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LOL...you must know my Future In Laws!